ok... first of all, i have this friend (paulyn)... shes my classmate for lyk 3 years... every first term, were friends and every 2nd and 3rd term, were enemies... last year shes not my classmate but i had a nice friendship with sharina last year... she was also my classmate this yr... i met mitchelle... shes nice but she often tease ppl but, its ok for me i mean, i dnt tack it seriously!!... the 4 of us, (me mitchelle sharina and paulyn) were bestfreinds this yr. but it suddenly ended for lyk the last 3 weeks. it started with paulyn... paulyn was ditching me and also mitchelle.. i really dont lyk being ditched. so i decided to not hang with them anymore. it dosent mean that im mad at them... BUT paulyn thinked that im mad at them so they started to backstab me and spread bad rumers... i really want to be friends with them again.. but i dunno how..
2006-08-21 23:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ehh... yeah, seems like sometimes all that seems good is to tell them what happened from beginning to end... tell them that you thought that they were ditching you and so you decided you should do the same... just tell them... communication is the key to a bunch of stuff... its all good if you give yourself a chance to explain...
2006-08-22 04:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were your true friends they wouldn't spread rumors about you. They would have said whatever they had to say to your face. In life you will find out who you can and cannot trust. You don't need a lot of friends in your life. B/C they can stab you in the back. Remember keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.
2006-08-29 20:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Soniamariet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch them all or call them and set up a lunch date that you want them all to attend to air out the problems,, and then start by telling them that u felt that you were being ditched, and that you only withdrew from them because you felt that was what they wanted...then order the most expensive dish,, wait a few minutes excuse yourself to the bathroom and ditch them with a huge bill
2006-08-29 17:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I CAN SAY IS....don't try to be frends with them anymore...becoz you wil only hurt yourself. Once a friend have done something that really hurts you a lot....and you can't believe that the one you really trust will hurt you so much.....ITZ A WAKE UP CALL to you! A true friend can never do such things to a frend. You know my best friend...even we're enemies before...she can't hurt me, becoz she loves me...and i know that...and i do too. If your frends and you become frends again...don't give them your all trust...and those things that they have done to you...Make it a Lesson for you!
2006-08-29 23:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Angeline_Love16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'VE MADE THE BREAK WITH PAULYN. STAY GONE. AND THE WHOLE CREW. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT THEY THINK OR SAY. IF IT GETS TOO BAD, ENTER THE ADULTS INTO THE PICTURE. FIND YOURSELF SOMEONE ELSE TO HANG WITH. HOLD YOUR HEAD UP, ANYONE WHO REALLY KNOWS YOU KNOWS THAT WHAT THEY SAY IS A LIE AND THAT THEY ARE JEALOUS. HANG IN THERE HON. APPARENTLY PAULYN HAS HAD A BUR UP HER BUTT WHERE YOU'RE CONCERNED. MAYBE SHE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO STAY A FRIEND TO ANYONE. SHE SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS SOME ISSUES. DON'T MAKE THEM YOURS. BEST OF LUCK.
2006-08-28 12:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by popcopgoldieoldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're don't like you anymore to be their friends. Just leave them alone. You can find a circle of friends in your campus. Let them do whatever they want, avoid to fight back because it will satisfy them. They're not a good friends for you.
2006-08-27 11:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk ,write ,see, or even say helloo to them they will wounder and come to u it worked 4 me they thought that i moved came over and said sorry because they missied me but i got so ust 2 it they call me every night 2 make sure i am still here now they r a little to close but it worked !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-29 03:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Galaxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you've got to finish this problem alone... dnt just ask everyone's help, you'll grow up not knowing how to solve a problem
2006-08-26 02:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by mahgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a "preoblem" I'd see a doctor!
2006-08-29 08:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Pistol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋