2006-08-21 22:54:52 · 12 answers · asked by britallstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only an immature little boy runs from his responsibilities..no one put a gun to ur head to marry her, no one put a gun to ur head to buy a house, no one put a gun to ur head and makes u work that job, these are all choices u made, now grow up and live with it..
2006-08-21 23:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run. That doesn't solve problems. Look for a new job. You'd have to find a new one if you leave anyway. Get out with your wife more often so she doesn't think about the trash, and see about getting out of your mortgage. Downsize and move to an apartment. You just need a little excitement and change. Your wife probably does too. Go on a vacation together. Pick up after yourself. Agree on doing a couple of designated chores. Consider hiring a maid; they are not as expensive as people think. This is the responsible and mature way to "run from it all."
Don't quit. You can do this!
2006-08-25 21:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by zosoo7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...while that might be what you want to do...it's something you really shouldn't do.
If you run away from the wife...eventually you will meet someone. Then you'll have to contact the first wife in order to get divorced or whatever...and then you'll look like an idiot to the new woman.
The mortgage you can't run away from...but if you were to divorce, perhaps it would have to be sold or she would buy you out...in order for you to pay it off.
There is really no where to run.
At 19 I joined the Army to leave a woman I mistakenly married. You can never go far enough...it is better to deal with things openly. Tell her you're tired of it & if you really mean it...start the divorce proceedings. It is your life...start making it better.
2006-08-22 03:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bill j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Hawaii and take a vacation. Then put it all in perspective. Somehow, nagging wife, mortgage and boring job will seem a little less terrible.
2006-08-21 22:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by smoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try Florida , nice beaches , not so high cost of living relax kick back enjoy the sunshine get thoughts together , maybe you can figure out what to do with nagging wife boring job and mortgage maybe you will miss it all then again maybe not and you'll love Florida !!
2006-08-21 23:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and automobiles are much alike, Some are right at home on an uphill pull; others run smoothly only going down-grade,and when you hear one knocking all the time.it's a sure sign there is something wrong under the hood.
2006-08-21 23:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you could not face as a lot as your issues then they'll in ordinary words keep resurfaceing if not resolved. search for advice from with one yet another, make compromises on both facet. this is type of like a sore, in case you retain choosing at it it is going to in no way heal. this is the little issues that finally placed on us down and they could be stated and resolved formerly the inflammation finally turns into insupportable. attempt to carry some warm temperature back into your courting. If through being thirty-5 miles away means that there is not any going back then so be it.
2016-11-30 23:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on down to San Francisco, the fresh air and warm atmosphere will do you good.
2006-08-21 23:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT RUN THATS FOR COWARDS, talk to your wife about it. cant you talk about changing jobs and possibly selling your house to either downgrade or move somewhere else....maybe you just need a holiday! happy life....
2006-08-21 23:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by xsplodeit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, go to China and teach English . it's a great job. things are cheap and you can save most of what you earn cos accomodation and other things are provided by your employer.
2006-08-21 23:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by love t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋