1) Move in with your partner?
2) Get married?
3) Start having children?
2006-08-21 22:53:31 · 21 answers · asked by Jodylee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This will sound like, old school, and i may seem like a old fart here, but if you really want your love to last, i will tell you that you may be rushing things by thinking about moving in together. I am sure you know that the failure rate for people who live together, before marriage is very high. So why do anything that has such a high rate of failing Do the things that work and, they will work for you. Follow the crowd and, you might end up with a broken family, kids that don't have a father in the same house, and a broken heart. If you love each other, make sure you do it right. Good starts make good finishes, possible. And i really hope for you and your family to be that you are one that makes it, last a life time. This will be the best thing you can do for your self, your mate and, your children
2006-08-25 20:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by loudowsonjr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see when is the best time ...
1) Move in with your partner?
When you know them as a person, trust them, love them and azre ready to share more fully with them.
2) Get married?
When you know them deeply, and are sure they are the life partner that you desire. Also, do you think that you want this person to be the father of your children.
3) Start having children?
First, when you are both ready and when your circumstamances support it.
Make sure your relationship is well established, children will change your lives for ever.
Its a great adventure but take time and take care
Peter
Are they commited to and raedy for parenthoo
2006-08-22 06:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Move in with your partner when u are earning and about 22-23.
2) Get married when u are at a good position and about 26-27.
3) Start having children when u are a good bank balance and about 29-30.........
2006-08-22 05:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by doable_rods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you move in with your partner when you think he really loves you and cant do without you,
2. you must get married when you feel stroger when he holds your hand
3 you must start having children when you dont feel like lookin at a handsome guy coz you find your man to be the most handsome.
2006-08-22 06:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand - help is on hand lav
id have children after i was married and move in after maybe 3 years of somethin like dat
2006-08-22 05:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by stretchy_baby69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 When you feel ready to share your space with him
2 When you think that sharing the space has worked well.
3 Not b4 you are at least 28
2006-08-22 06:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Whenever you both feel it is right ( emotionally and financially)
2) After you've lived with them and feel it is right
3) After 1 and 2 and when you're financially secure.
2006-08-22 06:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by octopuppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that you are ready.. if you know you can handle every problem that will come your way.. being married doesnt always mean you will be happy everytime.. problems will be there every steps of your way.. having children? if you know that you are responsible enough to have one.. go on! everything depends on you.. goodluck girl..
2006-08-22 06:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by "baby" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) when u like him.
2) when he also likes u
3) when u feel that let someone of ur own to be there to play with both of u
2006-08-22 05:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) When you're ready to stop sleeping around
2) When you're resigned to the fact you can't do any better
3) When Hell freezes over, or you want a council house
2006-08-22 06:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋