I have an irksome problem, my lady likes me to talk dirty and it really does it for her, unfortuately it does the opposite for me. I really just dont know what to say and I end up trying to think of something so hard that I get totally out of the mood. Has anyone else had this problem, how do you get round it? We will be "busy" and she will suddenly say "talk to me." Then I have to sit there thinking of something dirty to say and it doesnt come naturally. HELP!
2006-08-21 22:49:23 · 8 answers · asked by Octavius 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HAve you tried telling her? Say something like "I value you too much to ay something nasty. To me your precious and really I can think of beautiful things with you." It might make her so good!
2006-08-21 23:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by 40andgoing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my last b/f and same with my hubby but i just cant do it as in the throws of passion the last thing u wanna do is start talking lol so just say to her please babe tell me what u want me to do as it turns me on this has work for me and it get u out of it if that doesnt work turn on a porn movie and tell her ur both about to renact it and see if she can keep up
2006-08-22 06:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by kell2117605 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try playing music 2 distract her...
2006-08-22 06:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by moonchild1808 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a funny situation ! cus i once asked my bloke to talk dirty to me whilst sha**ing and he did'nt like it at all. he jumped off and said a sounded like a ghetto girl !!!! i ent asked since , just tell her you dont like it ! my bloke said he feels embarressed to talk to me like that
2006-08-22 05:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, one way to overcome this and distract your partner is to make lotsa exciting noise
2006-08-22 05:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by ^ross^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIRTY TALKING IS NIIIIIIIIIICE
2006-08-22 09:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say what you're gonna do to her, that's all she needs to hear!!
2006-08-22 05:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=X
2006-08-22 05:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋