I've got like 9 friends I can talk to about anything. They've always said they would be here for me no matter what. But I feel as though there is no one there. Like I am the only one here. I dont know what it is. Can anyone help me understand what this is?
2006-08-21 22:07:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are lonely not alone. lonely is a feeling inside you, alone is the lack of company. you need to do some soul searching you want/need something and you dont know what it is yet. youll figure it out and things will be good.
2006-08-29 21:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be an insecurity with yourself. So if there is "something" that you have hidden or keeping a secret from those around you, that you call friends, maybe therein is where the problem lies! You need to be honest with yourself and face the truth head on! Be brave and honest with yourself and those you need to make admission(s) to. You may also feel inferior to your friends as well. Do you feel like they are better than you, even in some areas of your company together? Why not talk heart to heart with your "close" friends at least about your predicament around them and others in life? You will feel much better sharing and giving (this) away to someone you can trust. Have fun, laugh more and be a good model citizen. The sky is the limit...go for it!
2006-08-29 11:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship may sometimes be seasonal, no matter how close you are to them, there are bound to be periods where you feel lonely or they are busy with other relationships. I have faced this before. But best friends always get back together when the winter season ends. Its like a test for the strength of your friendship. Even after a long periods apart, once we meet up again, we will have a long talk with no awkwardness. Since you can talk to them about anything, just tell them what the problem is if it is bothering you so much. If you feel lonely otherwise, what you need is a marriage.
2006-08-29 00:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by LEGO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone who can sing you the song of your heart when you have forgotten it. Is there someone that stands out like that for you? You need to be aware you cannot have a friendship with someone else, if you don't first like yourself. Where is your self esteem on a range of 1 to 10 with 10 being high? If there is something in your life, that you need to deal with and you have good friends, then this saying may make sense to you."You alone can do it, but you cannot do it alone"...
2006-08-29 00:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly because they are not close friends they are merely aquatainces. They don't understand, or share the same interests is you! A true friend knows everything about you and you never feel alone. I honestly have on true freind and several aquatainces.
2006-08-29 12:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are feeling alone because you feel your 9 friends dont know the true you. You seem to feel detached, which could also be a sign of depression...maybe try talking to a counselor.
2006-08-29 11:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by johannabnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your alone in a crowd that same thing happens to me its because our heart it searching for a special person a love a soulmate someone to fulfull its like being outside in the world and wanting to be home that feeling of being home your heart soul is searching
2006-08-21 22:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by aabracadabraitsdevina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you need someone close like everyone else, I used to feel that way when I was on my own,when you find that person and you feel as one with him you won't feel like that any more.
But friends can help to a degree if you talk about it to them
that's what friends are for to help through happiness and sorrow
2006-08-29 07:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by jazzie_jue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the sky. We are not alone. The whole universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work.
Stop feeling loneliness and stop complaining about it. Start to dream of achieving wonderful things. Set yourself goals to achieve. Always keep trying to attain those goals and realize your dreams. Never lose patience and firm faith in GOD. [GOD says in the Holy Quran that He is always with thoses who are patient]
2006-08-21 22:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by iqqy_aiwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u are feelin n that doesnt mean ur a bad friend. maybe ur going thru a rough time, but u cant find the solution. OR maybe ur depressed which is not ur fault,it is a disorder of chemicals in ur brain when ur stressed out, i hope this helps =)
2006-08-28 04:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by lacosteña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋