are you ready for what might happen after you dump him?
2006-08-21 22:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by gren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont litterally dump a guy. I only stop talking to him and if he's clever enough, he should get it. But I still think that it's better to dump a guy if you think you don't and won't love him after all he has done. It's better to be upfront that giving him false expectations.
2006-08-21 22:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by SeriouslyInLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope every girl puts themselves in their boyfriend's shoes before dumping them. Just like with every other relationship, trying to get perspective is half the battle. If they don't even try to put themselves in somebody's shoes before doing something emotionally terrible, like dumping them, then they aren't emotionally ready for a relationship anyway. I don't think anybody's ready for the fallout after a relationship is over. It's hard to gauge someone's reaction to an emotional bomb, and so I think being prepared for the reaction is probably a lie. You can never be ready.
2006-08-22 05:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by smoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you playing the victim???... see ? that's the type of guy i don't like,..You lackl personality man....it happens to both sides , women are also dumped. We dump guys with a reason , and usually we have a good one, while you guys most of the times dump us for another chick.
2006-08-22 05:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to be 100% sure to dump someone because you dont know how they feel, only yourself, they might seem ok, but you do feel a bit guilty
2006-08-22 05:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Eleanor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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man people dump because people dump. Get over it & get on with what's next in your life.
2006-08-22 05:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Rick A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should i put myself in his shoes? thats a bit silly. what do you mean what might happen? its over, its over, we should all move on to greener pastures, and if it aint greener anywhere else, then OH well.
2006-08-22 05:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really... if he deserves 2b dumped den i dont sympathize 4 him.. some guys r just a** holes...
2006-08-22 05:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a reason so the girl would be really upset
2006-08-22 05:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same for both sexes who cares
2006-08-22 05:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on why u dumped him!!!
2006-08-22 05:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by chris-mare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋