2006-08-21 21:59:09 · 51 answers · asked by thinwally 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Nothing - you can't buy her love. Your question should have read 'how can I gain her trust again'? If you think you can just give material things to make up for your misdemeanor, then you are a shallow person, and I feel sorry for you. A bit harsh I know, but the truth.
2006-08-22 06:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you were lying about! The best thing to do is have a full on conversation with her and explain the reasons for you lying, tell her the honest truth, explain how you are feeling and you've got to understand that you will need to gain her trust again which may take a bit of time. If she cant forgive you the best thing you can do is move on and appreciate all the good times you had together!
2006-08-22 03:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mariette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have learned a big lesson. Lying doesn't make for good bed fellows. Let her go and look somewhere else. I told my present wife on lie at the beginning of the relationship... she found out about it and I saw how bad it hurt her. But unlike your girlfriend she loved me so intensely, she took me back and I have learn a lesson I never will forget and have never lied to her again. We have been married for 6 years now. Loving every minute of it.
But in your case if your g/f will not forgive you .. you have lost her so remember lying is not good for a relationship of trust and honestly.
2006-08-21 22:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something you have to earn. It will take you a long time to earn it back. The point of having a partner is so you can talk about things openly with them. Shame on you for lying. I don't know why you lied to her but I would buy her flowers and tell your her sorry and make her understand why you lied to her. Hopefully you lied to her about something because you wanted to protect her feelings. If it was something else then maybe your not mature enough to be in a real relationship.
2006-08-21 22:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Elim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't love you you can't get her back by buying her something however wonderful.
You have to get back the thing you broke by lying to her.....her trust.
This may not be possible. She may be totally off you.There may always be a scar. But if you want her back, you will have to convince her you are sorry, and will never lie to her again. And you have to fulfil that.
Are you able to do that?
Be honest with yourself, only try if you are sure. You'd better get it right this time.
2006-08-22 11:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by alee-gator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what u lied about an what kind of person she is some people find it easier to forgive lies than others. write her a letter explaining why u lied an sayin that u know how wrong it was an that ur sorry an will never do it again. tell her u will do anythin to try to make things right between u again an send it with a beautiful bunch of flowers!good luck
2006-08-21 22:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't buy her anything!! You stop lying!! Why did you lye to her to begin with? I don't tolerate lying I need the truth even if it hurts and then we grow together from there. Stop lying and you will have a nice life ..keep lying and your world will forever suck!
2006-08-24 13:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you but her nothing my friend,, gifts of money or items of love are not valued by how much they cost but how much they mean to the one who is buying and the one who is receiving,
if you have lied to your girlfriend you better get over there ,eat humble pie and appologise as a man would,,
work out why and how you lied and promise it will never happen again,,
hopefully you will get a second chance and you had better not blow it,, once or if you make the peace then you treat her properly ,,,,that is the best present you could give,,,its called love,,,
thanks
2006-08-22 06:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think buying a present is going to change things but you could do something nice like surprisingly send her flowers to her work place that always works for me with a nice card saying how sorry you are. I think you just need to be honest with her and talk to her about it. You obviously sorry so show her how much. But be romantic and i'm sure she will be change her mind.
2006-08-21 22:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't buy her love back- tell her that you don't want to try and buy her back because you genuinly love her and want to win her back with your heart, show her you love her by cooking a candle lit meal or something romantic to show how much you really care for her, make her feel special!
Good luck!
2006-08-21 22:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by little.lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋