he started touching my boobs and started playing with my p.u.s.s.y....fingers...
2006-08-21 21:53:43 · 35 answers · asked by jenny w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My daughter is 14 that is scary that you are even going that far!!! I know from talking to her that sex at your age is not uncommon.
Just keep in mind that being too fast is the best way to get one hell of a reputation.
He is 17 and has urges that he wants you to fulfil is because he "loves" you or is it because he wants to sleep with you. If he loves you he will be prepared to wait until you are at least legal
Try and wait you have so much ahead of you
2006-08-21 22:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, dont listen to the ones saying that the guy is wrong and he just trying to get in your pants (CAUSE IT MAY NOT BE TRUE...THEY DONT KNOW THE GUY...My bestfriend was a 19 year old Senior dating a 15 year old Freshman...They got married last year, I HAVENT SEEN THE GUY HAPPIER - plus he never cheated - And Honestly he was a Male Ho before he met her ). I know i should be telling to absolutely DONT DO IT!!!, but im not. Your 14, soon you will be going to High School where peer pressure is going hit you like a ton of concrete. Though you are not an adult, it about time you start making crucial decisions on your own. SEX IS NOT BAD!!! Young sex was OK back then, way is different now. BUT, just be aware of the consiquences of sex at an early age, like the talking and the occasional rumor. If you think you are ready to experience it then go ahead and try it, BUT, if you are having doubts wait til you are more comfortable. Sex is natural and if you have sex and like it, YOU WILL NOT BE A SL** FOR OPENLY ENJOYING IT, just keep it between you and dont advertise it while you in school (Kids can be cruel...Just keep on the low for a while).A sexual appetite is not wrong and is not Immoral. If you do it to please YOURSELF its ok. BUT IF YOU DOIN IT JUST TO MAKE PEOPLE NOTICE YOU OR TO GET GUYS TO TAKE YOU OUT, THEN THATS WHEN YOU BECOME A SL** OR A WH***. Dont have sex because he wants, do it because you want, If you not comfortable...DONT!!!
P.S.
Im older, but im not a PEDO. I lost my virginity at a young age to an older woman (15)..so I fancy older women, so i wont be tryin to lure you...Honestly, i dont even think i ever had sex my age or younger then me...You will know when you are ready!!! Believe it
2006-08-22 03:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't have intercourse with him 1 you are way too young 2 you could get pregnant even if you do use a condom so I say nope but if you want to go ahead but I want say anything when you get in hot water down the road and if you get pregnant you may not be able to graduate and dont you wanna graduate with your class I would I dont wanna be left behind so go to www.boostup.org.make the right choice your future or a guy
2006-08-21 22:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church,ask God for pardon,for what you have done and what you have thought and wish to do.Baby doll you still have a long way to go.Grow up, let the tree flower and bloom,let the fruit ripen and then enjoy the harvest.
Every one enjoys ripe fruit, unripe fruit creates a lot of problems.Hold on darling before its to late. You live once,and you will always regret loosing your virginity at this age.Having sex after marriage gives you pleasure you will cherish all your life.
Just say no to your friend tell him that you are his,and if he can wait for you to grow up and marry you then he can have all the sex he wants to have with you.
2006-08-21 23:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont care what country you are in, thats illegal.
dont do it, when you're 14 you think you've seen it all! ive been through that, and so has everyone here. we also thought that we were ready to be adults at 14, but most weren't....
ask him why he dosent go out with a girl his age?
i expect from the sound of it, he expects to get his way with you quickly and easily. something to tell his friends about.
lastly, you dont have to rush into any sex (including manual which you already have...) at any age.
if he actually likes you for who you are, then he'll wait until
a) you are legal and
b) you are ready
2006-08-21 22:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should not have sex at this age. You should probably wait until marriage. From the sounds of this, the guy is a perv and only cares about sex. He doesn't care about you. He will wait if he actually does care, but I doubt it. Plus if you got protection from pregnancy, it won't help for STDs. They will get through. Don't trust this guy because he will probably lie to you.
2006-08-21 22:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from personal experience i'd say wait
14 is way too young to know what you are doing in that area
you can easily get pressured by older guys but don't give in
in2-3 years you'll be happy you did
(I was 14 first time around and it sucked big time)
2006-08-21 21:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the nicest possiable why GROW UP b4 u put out , dude u say u like 14 act like it u got plaenty of time to get it on. Dont end your youth on some eediot 17 yr old dating younger girls for some easy lay. if he cares at all he will understand, if not ditch his perveted ****
2006-08-21 22:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by X2 epsilon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no room to talk, I lost my V young too but from experience Wait, I wish I would of. 14 is young but also remember it only takes one time to get pregnant, STDS or even AIDS....think about your future becoming independent and doing great things. You seen smart because you STOPPED before it went any farther
2006-08-21 22:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by Daniela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is very young. YOu have your whole life ahead of you. He wont be the only guy. I think you should wait. If you think he is the rgiht guy. Make him wait. If he cant he just wants sex so kick him to the curb
2006-08-21 21:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Spliff08069 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋