he's in the Army and away at the mo I cry every night I try and keep myself busy but it doesn't seem to work that great. my friends are to far away to see after work and i just want to know how to cope??
2006-08-21 21:45:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand, but please don't sound so lonely and insecure. You don't need a guy or friends to keep you happy. If that is the case, then you got some problems. Get new friends? Ahh.. idk but you should be able to enjoy your life INDEPENDENTLY.
2006-08-21 21:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my man are also apart from each other as he live and work in another side of the world. But we know that our love is so strong that no matter how far the distance is between us, we'll be together again someday. It is very hard to be apart from one another and honestly, I do cry too sometimes when I miss him dearly. We keep in touch via emails everyday and sometimes phone calls as well. If you love your man deeply, you'll find that he's always in your heart no matter how far he is. Try to think more positive and be happy.
2006-08-22 07:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by babe_of_spanish_gladiator69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a job and keep yourself busy. I was in your situation before and everything changed when I got a job with a hectic schedule and I gave birth to our child, my attention and focus were directed on how to cope up with my stress & earning for my own family. What you are feeling is totally normal, okay and in temporary phase coz you miss & love him. It's just a matter of diverting attention. Goodluck!
2006-08-22 04:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by crystals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend are both in the forces, im in the British Army and he's a Royal Marine Commando. Ive just come back from Afghanistan and he's off in 6 weeks. I missed him like crazy while i was away from him, but we are now stronger than ever. Write how you are feeling in a diary - it helps.
2006-08-22 05:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by speakmankev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things to do, like things that will impress him when he gets home...my guy is in Iraq, and when ever he leaves, I find something to do around the house to make it look nicer for the next time he comes home. I have painted, wallpapered, re-did the whole bathroom, learned plumbing and how to lay tile....LOL, but it works and I have accomplished something I am proud of...like the new sink not leaking! (my only problem is when I run out of anymore house to remodel!!!!!) OMG...can't even think about that!
It's hard, but you just find things to do, like answers....helps me, my blog, writing...ect. I have my own journal for him about my days and how much I miss him. And still make time for you to have a girls night out at least 2x a month! And go and have fun.
(If you rent your home....ask the landlord for paint or is he'll take it off the next months rent...landlords never say no to cheap labor)
2006-08-22 05:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one, the Army deploys ALL the time. And most likely he is having sex with other female soldiers that are deployed with him.
2006-08-22 04:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember the times together. But beyond that, there really is no way to forget the pain. You really need to find things which help to keep your mind occupied.
Good Luck
2006-08-22 04:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing ill pray for you. write down all your feelings and you will see by the time you finish you will feel much better also having a blog helps too
2006-08-22 04:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by unitedfaith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there lot of things to do out there. eg bring ur parents out for eating or shopping.Life shld carry on with or without him
2006-08-22 05:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to pursue some of ur old hobbies.
or u can chat with others to share ur life.
2006-08-22 05:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋