just recently, my bf and i broke up... then few days later, he started sending sms again, saying he is missing me, and asking me to go out, which i refused to... then last night, we were supposed to meet, but he cancelled because he told he was tired, i got disappointed and again break up with him finally, again... now, my friends are telling me he is sufferring, and he can't work properly... am i mean to do that?
2006-08-21 21:40:51 · 12 answers · asked by kish-kish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hi there the only way to sort this out once and for all is to meet up and sit down and clear the air and i dont mean fighting just sit down and really explain to him how you feel about him and the relationship ,if he doesnt want to meet then thats his doinfg and it will mean that its time for you to take some time to get over things and that you tried to sort things and as for the friends any more of the he cant work or what ever else they are saying then you can say that you have tried to get this sorted and he wont meet so that will get them of youre case good luckand take care xx
2006-08-21 21:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason why you guys broke up, right? So, finalize it and go your seperate ways. You'll miss one another. But that's expected. Don't keep setting yourself up for dissapoint. It doesn't sound like this is the right time for you guys to be together. Maybe later on in the future you guys can get back together. Until then, I would just try and keep busy, seek comfort from friends and ride it out. It'll get worse b4 it gets better.
2006-08-22 04:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you seem that you are hard headed and you never learn from your mistakes. I will give you a piece of advice, take it or leave it. I f he really in love with you and missing you ask him to get married, if he accepted that means he loves you but if he refused that is a big proof that he was playing with you.
Take care of your self. Your friend :)
2006-08-23 01:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lonely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know even if you both still love each other and its hard to be apart, doesn't mean that you are supposed to be together. Sometimes the best thing to do is be apart. You will move on and so will he.
2006-08-22 04:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...no. If he really missed you all that much, he would have gone out of his way to make that date. He was "tired"...that's no excuse. If he wanted to get back with you, he would have dragged his butt over.
You're not being mean, you're being smart.
And yeah, don't get back together because you pity him either.
2006-08-22 04:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Fanar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that crazy person and be cool. Also no need to listen to your friends. Just because he is tired, he didnt meet you?
2006-08-22 04:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so....he didn't go cause he was tired? please!...he could have gone even if for 30 minutes...I don't believe he never went cause he was tired...when something is that important to you...nothing holds you back...
2006-08-22 04:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not mean! If this relationship meant anything to him he would have given it his all in trying to save it. Leave him hun.
2006-08-22 05:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1-Grow up
#2-Then try a mature relationship
2006-08-22 04:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with yogesh!
2006-08-22 04:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋