2006-08-21 21:10:35 · 28 answers · asked by raviraj_jpr 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It will b very bad, u should stop it b4 she herself falls in love with u, don't do it it's awful and will make u suffer all ur life believe me
2006-08-21 21:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about WHY you are in this situation:
Are you bored?
Are you unhappy with life?
Are you having a mid-life crisis and looking for a change?
Are you afraid of getting older?
Are you having marital problems with your wife?
Are you looking for a "safe" adventure or fantasy, believing that the relationship won't progress since you are both married?
Think about your motivations and psychoanalyze yourself a bit.
If something is bothering you about you wife, discuss it with her, and try to mend the situation. You are married to her and owe her that much.
If you find that you are having problems yourself, do not punish your wife by cheating on her. For example, if you are having a crisis, tell your wife about it. You can go through the rough patch together. That is what marriage is about.
2006-08-22 04:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To which way and to what extent do you want to mend your relations? Why can't you satisfy your perverted love symptom with your own married lady, leaving the other to live her life peacefully and socially decent way.
2006-08-22 04:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that you feel needs to be mended is NOT OK.
I dont think you are comfortable with waht you are doing, that is why you asked this question.
From your name , i guess you are from India.
This will not work out mate, just get out of this. Would yo feel good if your wife has a similar relationship with someone else?
2006-08-22 04:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a culturally relevant question. In China, for instance, it is normal for a married man or woman to have another lover. I understand this practice also happens in France.
However, in most cultures, this is not considered the norm, because marriage is considered to be a contract to the exclusion of all others. Is this the case for you?
Before you jump into this extra marital affair, ask yourself two questions: one is, how would your wife feel if she found out, and two, how would you feel if your wife was in an affair?
2006-08-22 04:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by moentran_au 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible. Are you also in love with your wife? Is she in love with her husband? I know I would feel like dying if my husband fell in love with someone else, and he feels the same.
If you're in a loveless marriage, why did you marry in the first place? The affair was a big mistake on your part, if you did in fact have an affair.
2006-08-22 04:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by hontouniungaii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr.Ravi,you know you are doing wrong,and they lady you are in attraction both know that ,What ever reason you started you should stop immediately other wise two family's are going to destroyed.Before it go bad to worse stop it and save both family's.It will be difficult but it can happen and it's very very impotent.Don't Waite to long and stop this now.
2006-08-22 06:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever wish ,but u r in society and living in this society ignore this situation so that u can be safe otherwise u have to face many problems ,u never expect what will happen ,so ignore her and try to love ur wife ,she believe u and dont loose her believes ,be safe with ur relation,u r attracted towards her there is nothing will be there so enjoy with ur family
2006-08-22 07:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by bshhssn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u have doubts about this relation shows that you know what ur getting involved in is wrong.
2006-08-22 04:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Heista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt get involved in the first place....ur a bad man and so is the lady knowing u are married...
2006-08-22 04:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋