When my best friend (a guy) sleeps over or we go on vacation i just feel the need to want to have sex or oral sex with him.. he acts like he doesnt want to.... But always lets in and we have sex and oral sex for a couple of hours and says how good it was after, and seems like he really means it.. I believe he just doesnt want people to know that he is bi.. because he has a girl friend..
How can i ask him if he seriously likes the sex with a guy?
2006-08-21 21:08:27 · 13 answers · asked by Shane 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I Love to have sex with a guy, and i like sex with chicks.
2006-08-21 21:19:39 · update #1
BY THE WAY WHAT EVER GIRL I DO SLEEP WITH I TELL THEM IVE SLEPT WITH GUYS AND I DO USE PROTECTION... IM NOT THAT STUPID.
2006-08-21 21:31:18 · update #2
Shane if this guy was a stranger then I could understand it being just sex. But I'm curious to know how this can be just sex when he's your best friend? It must impact on your relationship with him...
To answer your question, if he tells you he likes it and he lets it happen then I think you've got your answer. However there is more to being bi than just enjoying sex... You should already know that sex in men is an opportunistic thing as much as it is (MORE) a part of an expression of love.
I reckon this guy just succumbs to your expert action upon him and gives in to the old adage "Any hole's a good hole". To be bi there does have to be an element of attraction - even if it's only physical. So you're best bet is to ask the fellow, how he feels about you two getting it on.
2006-08-21 22:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just enjoys the sex with you.
I have a gay guy friend who once a week has sex with a guy who has a gf.
Its just for the sex dont read anything more into it
2006-08-21 21:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down one night and ask him directly and seriously if he enjoys it. Having sexual tension between you two and unasked questions may detiorate a friendship... Just tell him that you'll be okay if he does not enjoy it, but hopes he does. That way, he can be as truthful as possible, seeing as there isn't any pressure one way or another.
Hopefully this helps, and good luck!
2006-08-21 21:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Zyxxin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. Sex with a best friend is great. Dont let it just be about that.
2006-08-21 21:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by jusslisten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, sleeping with friends always sucks. And not in the good way.
Most of my life I've been a tomboy, and it was much easier for me to relate to men. Until recently, all of my closest friends have been men. And screwing them never worked out.
If someone is ambivalent about your relationship, they can't handle it and are not worth your time, whatever gender they may be.
Get over it. Find men that will treasure you AND sleep with you. You deserve it.
2006-08-21 21:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Earth Queen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can have sex with this guy but you can't ask him a straight questions. no pun intended. Best friends, especially guys, should be able to talk about anything. Just ask him.
2006-08-21 21:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Do you seriously like sex with a guy? just ask him that
2006-08-21 21:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just ask him if he likes it. my friend jack who is gay once or twice a week has sex with my other friend alec who has a girl friend
2006-08-21 21:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by <33DJ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you seriously like sex with a guy?
2006-08-21 21:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by johnny_p_hall 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋