5 years we're togethr when he isnt texting or phoning me i feel so lonely duno y its like dat i cant live without him. he told me he'll text me when he's free but i fear wat if he doesnt and leaves me?is it possible that he comes back to me?how long might it take?im nearly dying i dont eat and hardly sleep i keep thinking how were we happy a couple of weeks before. please help me.
2006-08-21 20:30:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try calling him telling him u're sorry, and tell him to talk to u.
Or u can always find another guy.. it's not that hard.
2006-08-21 20:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have driven him away by getting into his face too much and demanding constant attention just to show how much you want/need him. Unfortunatley that works the opposite becuase the challange is gone away and he does not have to try so hard to get or keep you anymore. You have focused all your energy and thinking on him and that is dangerous. You need to dievert your attention and thoughts elsewhere so you both have time to breath and think and not be so heavy and demanding that you will get disappointed if he does not call you back or see you when you need. Find other things to occupy your mind and be cool and wait for things to happen or not..
2006-08-21 20:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that possessiveness will drive away ALL men, as in ALL! Imagine a man that possessive... it will also drown you out.
Get urself together.. learn to be able to live ur life even without a man. until you can do that, u and ur man will never be happy in a relationship.
one of the things men hates is when a woman becomes sooo possessive like yourself. be thankful he hasnt left you, bec 99.5% of men would leave at the first instance.
get urself a life. learn to stand on ur own 2 feet, bec this world holds no guarantee. what we have today may be gone tomorrow...
2006-08-21 21:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are smothering him. People want what they can't have and if you are always there, why should he persue you. Cut him some slack. Give the man some time alone and maybe he'll realize what he's missing, or maybe he wants out. You can't keep him like a pet. Men need some space.
2006-08-21 20:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by breeze1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you have to do some soul searching!No guys would like their other half to overly control them.Well,you might have sup pass his limit.Put yourself in his shoe and think about it,what if your GF treat you in this manner.Don't feel vexed,give him a call, tell him that much you cherish him and promise you would change for the better. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-21 20:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a breath and back off
2006-08-21 20:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him ASAP!
Then, after you feel better, try to do something that will take your mind off of things - a hobby WORKOUT is great for you mind/body.
2006-08-21 20:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by Quinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry. it works. u and i have the same problem and the same solution, guys are stupid with the person they really love.
2006-08-21 20:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋