I had a call yesterday at late night from this old GF of mine, we were togother for almost 2 years,but then she got married, now she calls saying that she loves me and she was forced to accept the marriage, and she wants love (among other things she asked, of course u know what i mean).
I'm confused, i really DID love her,but what should i do now?
2006-08-21 20:15:56 · 39 answers · asked by manowaric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How it starts is how it ends.
Today...you are confused and she cheats on him to be with you.
Tomorrow...she cheats on you to be with another and you are still confused.
Is the drama worth it???? Either keep your eyes open for the ride or save your tickets for another day. Best luck to you!
2006-08-21 20:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by LUCKY3 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Run away as if you're running for your life... what's in the past is in the past, and getting together with her now is only looking for major problems where there shouldn't be any. She's married dude that can only mean more bad news. Trust me, her feelings for you may have come back but unfortunately all that is in the past, you can't get back together for something that once was, you moved on as well as she, now she's committed to something more serious, marriage, you'll just be a third wheel waiting to flat out in the future... G'luck with whatever you decide.
2006-08-21 20:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lexus-Nut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's married now and there's nothing more you can do about that unless you plan to break it,of course.
You're not responsible for her unhappiness due to her so-called "forced marriage".You're a free man..don't allow yourself to go into that mess no matter what sweet nothings she's offering you in the name of love..geez, for heavens' sake don't fall into that trap and be forever shadowed with a guilty conscience,it's wrong & it's not healthy.
2006-08-21 20:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How was the relationship before you broke up? What was the break up like? do her reasons sound like an excuse or seem believable/acceptable to you? Can you forgive her? Do you want to forgive her? What would the relationship entail if you did take her back?
Just some stuff to think on so you can decide for yourselg. Good luck.
2006-08-21 20:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion this old gf is probably experiencing bad times with her hubby and is looking for the love sha once had. You don't know what u had untill it is lost they say. If she is looking for love is this something she really wants or a safety net?No one is forced to do anything. Your over the age of 18 and can tie your own shoes then you can make your own decisions.
2006-08-21 20:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by shani9600 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on my friend. You'll always feel like second best with her. Find your first best... she's out there. Nobody forced her to marry. She signed on the dotted line for the license and then volutarily said "I Do". Just because she is saying I won't anymore doesn't mean you entrust her with your heart twice. Find Miss Right, she's clearly mMiss Wrong and will play your heart again when she changes her mind again....
2006-08-21 20:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a recipe for disaster. She's looking for comfort in what may be a loveless marriage, or what could just be a rough spot. Either way, dont get involved. As tempting as it is, she's already made her choice, and it wasnt you the first time, and it won't be you the second.
2006-08-21 20:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok...take it from a girl whos actually done that (im only being honest), she just wants to have her cake and eat it too.you have every right to be confused, it just means she chose HIm att at time, now she realised shes bored of him and she wants you. it might work, but what if she says the same to someone else once you're together.
then again, trust your instinct and it might be even better then it could ever have been.
2006-08-21 20:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not so sure if anybody can force u into marriage, in these days,. Why not giving her a chance. Maybe u realize that you still love her and she still loves you.
2006-08-21 20:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by su2b4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't deserve a first chance.
Think about it, she MARRIED someone and admits straight out that she doesn't love him. How do you suppose, she's going to prove any feelings she says she has for you are real?
2006-08-21 20:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by d h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way thats not worth it just think of why you too split up. How do you get forced into marrying someone? thats a choice really what i think is that she is not happy with the way her partner is pleasing her and she wants more dont get your self into something that will just turn into something huge my advice is tell her she made her choice and leave her dumb a$$
2006-08-21 20:23:15 · answer #11 · answered by typhaniee0027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋