Last weekend my baby came to me and said baby i dont want to have sex any more , but he doesn't want to get married. he does not want to split up either. Tell me how should i handle this.
2006-08-21 19:57:54 · 25 answers · asked by LADY N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Respect it!
2006-08-21 20:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well go out and find ya some strange you 2 aren't married yet and if he don't want to put out then oh well his loss!!I wouldn't suffer esp when he was giving you some now all of a sudden he has a change of heart .Let him be the one to Wait have your fun then get married and get some from him when he is finally ready good luck sister!
2006-08-22 03:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really love him you will be willing to respect him and wait until you are married. I beleive in waiting until marraige is right too, and he is a much bigger man for having the guts to stand up for himself like that. Not many guys would do that. It must be tough for him too, you have to try to understand that. Temptation is everywhere and you can't turn it off. If you think he is worth it you should talk to him and make that committment together, to wait until both of you are married(to EACH OTHER!!) Hahaha - lol. Good luck to you with that.
2006-08-22 03:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by 2shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Press him to marry if you have been having sex then I would say you are married in Gods eyes but tiwe the note and make it legal. has he just become more involved in a church or is it possible he has met some one else
2006-08-22 03:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your bottom line? If that doesn't work for you, plain and simple, then it probably never will. Validate his feelings, ask for some clarity, and tell him your bottom line-- and stick to it, even if it means that you're not together anymore. If, however, it's something that you can accept, then enjoy each other's company, minus the sex.
2006-08-22 03:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Amersmanders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibilities:
He has an STD
He's Gay
It's Over
He had an epiphany
Depression
Either way, respect his decision. Being that I don't know how old you guys are, maybe he thinks you're too young for sex.
2006-08-22 03:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Adriane C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u got to shake him and explain that u cant cary on like this
An less u dont mind the present condition
2006-08-22 03:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by tickling-feet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to have sex with you any more, it means he wants to break up with you but doesn't have the balls to tell you to your face.
Dump him like yesterday's newspaper and get a real man.
2006-08-22 03:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up, he is telling he got himself what he want it from you, now is time to move to some else, he is playing you, discard that sorry *** move on and next timedont be so quick to open your legs, except if all you want is sex and no relation
2006-08-22 03:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by gotaken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes over again rape give him the time of his life. Give him the ******** he has never had before. Make him forget what he said.
2006-08-22 03:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by 1petc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is ok or if there is another girl on the side or maybe u just have a really good guy lol i dont know thats wierd..sorry
2006-08-22 03:01:54 · answer #11 · answered by typhaniee0027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋