Hey,
i just met a guy whom i like, it turns out he ws married wit 2kids. He told me they r no longer together, but when she saw us she went wild and embarrassed me. He protected me thru n thru n told her to stay away frm me. But am afraid she wont stop. Last time she followed me at CHURCH!!! Wat do i do? Help.
2006-08-21 19:54:26 · 10 answers · asked by Bels 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sure thing she still love the guy. Enough reason for your to keep your distance. Eventually, if things are already settled between them, if the guy has already made his point of breaking up with her. In this way, his ex-wife won't hunt you down. Also, if that man really loves you, he will find a way to make things permanent between the two of you. Just take it easy girl, you don't deserve a relationship as scarry as that. Being with someone, it shold be something that will give you security and peace. =)
2006-08-21 20:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe things are still just a bit too intense between them. Give it some space, and if he's serious about you too (like it sounds) then maybe he'll be more willing to sort things out with his ex, and come back with a little less drama-- just remember that as long as you're with him, he'll have an ex and he'll have 2 kids, you won't be able to get away from that, and if he's not serious about his kids, then he's probably not someone you want to be with.
2006-08-22 03:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amersmanders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps stalking, you get a restraining order. I think your safety is more important than whatever else you've got going on right now. However, is he STILL married or officially divorced? If divorced, then there's no reason you can't be together, but don't be a homewrecker (if he's still married).
2006-08-22 03:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a bad situation and unless you really want to get serious with this guy and battle his soon to be ex i think i would run in the other direction as fast as possable. if you decide to stay then you need to get an anti harrassemtn order against her and have her serves so she has to stay away from you.
2006-08-22 03:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go is it really worth getting your life screwed up or getting hurt over and do you really want to live with the thought of hurting his family just for your own pleasure no man is worth your soul or the agony do yourself a favor and find a single guy
2006-08-22 03:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by tygres303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing him, do not destroy a family. And most of the time your just an adventure for him. If he wouldn't be together with her than they would be divorced right?
2006-08-22 03:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by su2b4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her girl. you gotta tell her you didn't know bout him bein married n stuff. its going to be hard but you gotta convince her. but let me ask you this. after this whole incident are you still in lvoe wiht him? this maybe the hardest thing youll have to do but you're going to have to confront her. just hope it doenst turn out to be a violent meeting. dont let your fists get to your words.
2006-08-22 03:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be scared she is probably plotting to kill u im serious dont report me plz
2006-08-22 03:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chicken C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should let him go!
2006-08-22 03:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry no idea
2006-08-22 03:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋