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Please help me i really need to know because im black and i cry alot because all my friends either have a big butt or big boobs and it hurts when your the differnet one from your friends. So please i would like to stop crying so if you have anything please oh please,plz,plz,plz let me know. Thanks

2006-08-21 19:44:02 · 20 answers · asked by chantel k 2 in Beauty & Style Skin & Body

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Sweetie when i was ur age i was already a d cup..... and its not all its cracked up too be.... the guys ur age are intimidated by the boobs and the guys too old are infatuated with them... its hard to find who wants you for you and who wants you for ur boobs.... now here i am 20 yrs old and a 1 kid later in a freakin' triple d..... and I'm telling to i have back problems out the butt all the females in my family do too i had a cousin get a reduction from all her problems....... just be your self sweetie..... you will get what you are meant to have....... and im sure at 16 you will be busting out there, just love ur self and what you were given........ i would love to have smaller boobs, and on the butt thing i have a tiny butt, the normal little white girl azz as my friend calls it..... its not the body that makes the girl its the girl that makes the body, it will all come in due time babe, just make the most of it...im sure you are beautiful!... bye Hun

2006-08-21 20:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremysmom05 3 · 0 0

Hi, I wanted to tell you about my experience with the CurvyBust cream. I'm 24 years old and I've spent pretty much my whole life wishing I had slightly larger breasts. I'm normally a size A, I'd love to be a size B, especially when I wear certain kinds of low cut tops. I have a good figure, and I like what I have, but every now and then I would like a little bit more. Even if I had the money, (which I don't because I am a college student with loans to pay off), I would never consider going under the knife just to go up 1 cup size. So that's been my dilemma.
I found out about curvybust cream when I was flipping through (Yahoo Answers). To be honest with you, I'm not the type of girl who would consider spending money on a cream that promises to increase breast size. It just seems like an impossible thing to claim. But there were three reasons that I decided to go for it:

1) I contacted them via their website because I had a question about the cream being OK for sensitive skin (which it is, because it is made of natural botanical ingredients.)

2) I was really impressed by their customer service and willingness to explain everything to me. 3) They offered me a free 12 day supply with no obligation, (I just had to pay the shipping costs- I wasn't too thrilled with that but it was still worth it to get the free product).

Well, it's actually working! There is a noticeable difference in the size of my breasts! It's only been 10 days, and they say that the true final results won't appear until about the 4-6 month time frame, but based on what I can see, (and what my boyfriend can feel�) there's definitely a difference. My breasts are standing out more, and they are fuller and rounder. Sometimes I am able to go out without a bra, now I can't. And I have a feeling that I might have to actually buy new bras if the growth continues. I'm looking forward to seeing how the next month goes. There might actually be a size B in my future! Woohoo!

2016-05-16 04:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey, I'm 42 and am only a 36B - don't worry, at your age I didn't have any boobs! I've always had a butt though and I give anything now if it was smaller!! You're body is going to go through a lot of changes in the next six years, so just grab hold and enjoy the ride - by the time you're 21, you won't even recognize yourself! Besides, more than being like your friends, you need to learn to like who you are because you are just you - none of us want to be different from those around us at your age, I remember all to well, I didn't even develop breast until I got pregnant at 24! That's the truth. I never even owned a bra until I got pregnant and they started popping out. I just figured I'd be flat chested forever - but I'm not! So, don't be so hard on your body - it's going to change and change and then change again - so, will your friends - so even though they may appear to "out do you" now, it'll change - and trust me when I say the longer you stay small built, the better off you are - my friends would give anything to still be my size now. So, pick your battles - cry over the things you know will never change - your body isn't one of them - the loss of a loved one is. Hang tough - us little girls are dynamite! Big girls are all package and no explosion!!

2006-08-21 19:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by dph_40 6 · 3 0

Like most people are saying, yes, nature must take its course.
Also, trends come and go. Jlo rumps and Pamela Anderson boobs are the fads now. Next year, that can change.
I'm very pale skinned. Back in the day, to be pale white was a trend. It meant you were nobility. But during our generation, I get called ghost, whitey, albino, etc. Being pale is not in fashion anymore; being 'ethnic' is. There's nothing I can do about it. I can't tan. But that's okay because this is how I was made. So while your friends are "in" right now, who knows... maybe you will be next year.

However, I know what its like to "not have a butt." In my extreme case, my butt was so thin, I had medical issues. I was not able to sit down for long periods of time without cushions. Can you imagine my senior year of high school I carried a pillow with me to my classes to sit on? People made fun of me. Some people thought I used it to sleep in class. (Again, I could care less what they thought. Some people found it funny, and I did too.)
My doctor told me that I had to wait till I had children to "grow a butt." I found out this is not true. When I went to college, I ran track and was in the best shape of my life. I found out that working out made my legs and butt bigger (muscular). I had trouble fitting into my jeans and had to go pants shopping. My boyfriend and guy friends use to joke about how it was me and my butt like we were two separate identities.
So, if this is the same for you, the best and healthiest way is to work out.
In terms of your boobs, if you work out to get your butt big, you do NOT want large boobs. They are more in the way or cause back issues. Why would you want that annoyance? Big does not always mean better or desirable.
I hope this helps! Why have the same body as everyone else? Isn't being unique a trend?

2006-08-21 20:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by lexkp23 2 · 0 0

Firstly 34B is not particularly small, it is medium sized and secondly you sound like you are in proportion.

My suggestion to your would be to build up your glutes and pecs, which will make the butt and boobs stick out more, giving them a larger appearance.

Good luck : )

2006-08-22 03:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wait till you are 16 for the boobs then the other will come after your first child or when you are 20 or so.

2006-08-21 19:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by ontherocks 2 · 0 0

Dry your tears, honey; 10 years from now all of them will be crying and you'll be fine!

I know, because I was just like you when I was your age, and since I was slow to develop, my figure has lasted a long time and I am also very slow to age.

So enjoy it, and look forward to a long life with a great figure!

2006-08-21 19:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0 0

I was just asking a question of the same type. Just be comfortable in the skin your in and you are average. Your friends are just way mature. Serious Im the same. Someone told me to be happy for who you are not what you are.. I hope this helps you. Remember be confident in yourself.

2006-08-21 19:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tory 2 · 0 0

You're way too young to be concerning yourself about things like that. You're already average in comparison to women twice your age so as much as this isn't what you want to hear just be patient and let mother nature do her work.

2006-08-21 19:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by malevolentmuse 2 · 0 0

Don't ever consider Plastic Surgey!

At least not yet anyway, you're only 14 and still developing, I had nothing at you're age and now they're D's and my butt is quite nice too! so don't worry as you get older you're wonder what you were stress'n about!

2006-08-21 20:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by Pauashellz 2 · 1 1

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