well i caught her sending emails about me to my best friend zac ( he is like 21 or someting and a christian ) ( we r 14 and christians too! ) and it said i was upsetting her and that i was worrying her i asked her why she was sending emails to zac about me and she told me i was worrying her and wouldn"t tell me why i was worrying her i kept asking my she yelled at me to mind my own buisiness and well it is my buisiness and then i asked zac and he told me to mindmy own buisiness as well> help me i"m a very confused gal
2006-08-21 19:37:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
explain to them like this..; if i am doing something to annoy or make either of you upset please tell me so that i may change,,if that is not an option please refrain from associating with me in the future ,because if you can e mail stuff concerning me, then you two should have the common decency to tell me to my face, i am a person not a subject to be privately discussed and /or ridiculed . .and remember you dont need periods or commas or good speeling on yahoo answers if it was important than yahoo wouldnt allow anyone to post so anyone has a problem with run on sentances dont respond to them..
2006-08-29 17:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's your best friend... why say '21 or someting'? Shouldn't you know his age if you are that close? Or has the idea of best friends been changed since my elementary school days? And what does religion have to do with this? Zac can talk about you to whomever he wishes. First, he's a human. Second, he's an adult. If his age 'or something' was correct, then he wouldn't have to come sniveling to you about every little thing he writes. Sometimes, people need to discuss other people who are driving them crazy. And honestly, I don't blame him.
P.S. I despise run-on sentences. That's what school's for. I'm 14. At least a comma, if you could. Geez.
2006-08-29 14:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, what the heck is a 21 year old guy doing talking to 14 year old girls. Secondly if they are talking in secret, something tells me they are not very good Christians because they probably were involved with something un Christian like. Take it as an easy way out. Tell them, that you have been friends with them and for some reason you don't believe that they fit in your life style. Tell them it was nice to know them, but you have better things to do than to have friends being secrative. And, for all of the people out there being cruel, cut the girl some slack, she is fourteen seeking advice not critism.~
2006-08-29 10:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does being a christian have to do with this? Aren't you too young to be playing on the computer without your mom or dad? You should not be sending emails at your age either.
2006-08-29 15:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should break up with your best friend. The Best friends for life ("BFL") title is a very important designation and you don't want to be giving it to a freak that tells you she is doing her chores when she is really talking to another friend. When she has to decide between life and death for you, she may be talking on the phone pretending to do her chores and you could be stuck in limbo. This is really not a good thing. Dump her. Dump her now.
2006-08-29 09:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 14....drama queen city....to much drama for me...but...as a MOM perspective on this issue....
You should'nt be emailing 21 yr guys. You are too young too immature....and could cause huge problems for this 21 yr old. Stick to the boys in your age bracket of 14-16 they're immature just like you. and all enjoy the drama and the he/said she/said emails and crap!
2006-08-28 23:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes your friend zac,you see so many girls will do this and this is why i have no friends that are female,they pretend to be your best friend but always behind your back have something to say there not really friends are they,
your two friends like each other however if zac doesnt watch it and he gets onvolved with your friend he could be charged as she is underage
2006-08-22 14:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did something that made her upset. And looking for someone who would be on her side, and that is your best friend. Do what they said, mind your own business. If she doesn't like to tell you what worrying and upsetting her, so leave it.
2006-08-27 11:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them be. If they're your real friends you need not bother. Just look inside yourself and find out if you've done anything to upset them. If you have be large hearted to walk up and say sorry and make a fresh beginning.
2006-08-29 19:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Pat Wardhan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl, i think this is d best way :
- if they keep telling you to mind your own buisiness, then, you do that.
- maybe there is some ' jeleousy' in her. maybe you do have to mind your own buisiness.
- maybe this is a lil' cruel, but think back, what'd make she said that to your bf { Best Friend } or > BoyFriend? <
- maybe you had say something unconciously, that might touch her?!....
-whatever it is, think carefully ok, my dear... ; )
2006-08-21 19:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋