for guys what is the ideal?

Question

guys what is your ideal girl...this is to prove that there isnt one type of girl for all guys. some like blondes some like freckles some like short its all different....right?

Answer 1

You're right, guys have a lot of different preferences and it all depends on a few things and surprisingly enough it's not all about looks. 1) Past relationships. For example, some guys may not go for a brown headed girl no matter what she's like because of the fact that he had a bad relationship with a girl with brown hair if that makes any sense. 2) What type of guy they are, ( i.e. pigs or frat guys, gentlemen, nerds, jocks, or momma's boys). *The Pigs...or frat guys mostly are looking for nothing in particular just a girl to get drunk and screw. *Gentlemen (Prince Charming) tend to look over looks more often because they are looking for someone that can spark them mentally as well as physically and they try to find the girl thats well suited to their needs whether it be a smart girl that's funny and somewhat cute or a sexy girl thats smart and funny, also known as the catch. They also try to find a girl that won't go out and party as much because they are well accustomed to hanging out and watching a movie and cuddling or just going out to eat. *Nerds are looking for their superhero in human form...Princess Leia...need I say more? *Jocks or preppy guys mostly look for a preppy girl, wears Hollister or American Eagle and all that. She is usually popular, maybe a cheerleader or a girl who is blonde or has highlights. They are naturally looking for girls that are popular because they make them look better than they really are. * Momma's Boys are most likely looking for a girl who, surprise surprise...reminds them of their mom. When it all comes down to it, guys are suckers for a good, well rounded girl that treats him right. Puppy dog eyes are always a good thing and a great smile cannot be beaten by anything. Just carry yourself right and the right guy will come along. BUT REMEMBER THIS...The guy that might not be the most popular guy or the best looking guy will probably treat you 10 times better than the guys that do have those qualities. I personally am a guy who is a mix between the gentleman type and the jock/preppy type. Great personality, a sense of style, great smile, beautiful eyes, a decent body and some brains...that's the package for me right there.

Answer 2

Of coarse it's all different. No one woman can satisfy all men, just like no one man can satisfy all women. We are all subject to taste. It is true that we fallow what we are shown as beauty as we grow up. Women are attracted to the guys that remind them of there quintessential man.... There father. And men are attracted to there quintessential woman.... There mother.
So every woman is going to have a different "TYPE" of man they want, and every man is going to have a different "TYPE" of woman they want.
Abe Lincoln said it best ... You can please some of the people all of the time, and you can please some of the people some of the time. But you can't please all of the people all of the time.
That being said there is also a great deal of influence we get from our surroundings. Our upbringing so to speak. Society dictates what is attractive and unattractive. We for the most part fallow along. We all have our own taste, but we generally fit into societies norm.
Robust women used to considered attractive, and now are considered... Well, less attractive. Bone assed skinny women used to be considered attractive and for the most part still are, but I just can't seem to find any guys that actually think this is desirable.
What I can generally say most men fall into are three things...
looks, body, and personality. Funny thing is nature seems to use these three things to "level" the playing field. See most women will have two of the three traits, but fall short on the third. If a woman is beautiful and has a great body... She usually has a horrible personality. If she has either a great body and a rather homely face, or a beautiful face and a unfit body, she will tend to have a great personality. Making them attractive. Nature has a plan you see.
As for looks.. .Which is what I am guessing you are really asking for. Symmetry,and fitness is the best answer. Generally speaking for attractiveness.
The best answer I have been able to come up with up till now on the difference between men and women though is...
Women are attracted to the men they fall in love with,...
And men fall in love with the women they are attracted to.

Answer 3

Don't like fake blondes because their personality revolves around them being blonde. I'd rather be with a woman that has ok looks but is independent, smart, and doesn't take crap from a man, than be with some clingy, dumb, good looking bimbo that couldn't compete on the intellectual level of a rock. Those women are only good for one nighters or a rebound relationship.

Answer 4

Smart, attractive, kind.

As far as the attractive goes. I've seen blonds and brunets that I like. Freckles are OK either way. Slender is good. Small strait nose. I like longer strait hair. Not too much makeup!

Smart as in .. she likes to talk about ideas. This is hard to find.

Answer 5

Black hair, darker skin (like that of women from India), full breasts but not too big, and thick hips, average height , well rounded intelligence, .....ummmmm delicious!

Answer 6

Personally, doesn't matter to me in the end, all that matters is if the girl is sincere and there is understanding between us. Not that I would know, of course...

Answer 7

The idea girl is the one that puts out. All that other stuff is meaningless...

Answer 8

Hard to say. Intelligent,can take a joke,in shape,athletic, willing to to try new things,adventurous

Answer 9

there is not only one "type" of girl for me.
it all depends on where i'm at on that day.