this is a silly question but...?

Question

okay me and my husband had unprotected sex aug 13-14 and i had my period 1-7 okay i know there is a GREAT chance i might be pregnant, i had my son 6 months ago so im like at a higher chance here, but my question is, if you have REALLY rough sex, can that hurt the baby, i only did it once, i mean rough anyways, but yeah, i dont even know if i am pregnant but if i am, it shouldnt hurt the baby should it?

Answer 1

No. Not unless your idea of rough sex involves penetrating the cervix or severe blows to the lower abdomen. Even then, the chances of harming the baby aren't 100%.

If you're penetrating the cervix, you could cause an silent infection that might possibly cause damage to the baby but not terminate the pregnancy. Beyond that, if you're not spotting, you're fine.

Answer 2

Unless you have any abnormality dont worry

With a normal pregnancy, you can keep doing it right up until your water breaks. Do check with your doctor or midwife first if you've been treated for premature labor or if you're having any problems with your pregnancy, such as a shortened or dilated cervix, leaking amniotic fluid, placenta previa, or bleeding, or if you have a history of miscarriages. There are some instances when you should avoid having sex.

But as long as your pregnancy is normal, you won't hurt the baby by making love, even with your partner on top. The thick mucus plug that seals the cervix helps guard against infection. The amniotic sac and the strong muscles of the uterus also protect your baby. Though your baby may thrash around a bit after orgasm, it's because of your pounding heart, not because he knows what's happening or feels pain.

Will it feel as good?

Even better for some women, not as good for others. Increased blood flow to the pelvic area can cause engorgement of the genitals and heighten the sensation. But the same engorgement gives other women an uncomfortable feeling of fullness after intercourse ends. Also, some women may have abdominal cramps during or after intercourse. Your breasts may become enlarged and can be more tender, which can cause discomfort when they're fondled. You may have more vaginal discharge or moistness, which can make sex either more pleasurable or can result in some vaginal irritation. If you notice a sudden change in the amount of vaginal discharge or a foul or unusual odor, check with your practitioner. You could have a vaginal infection or your bag of waters may have broken. When your water breaks, you may feel a slow leak rather than a gush of fluid all at once.




Positions during pregnancy

"NOT TRYING TO BE FUNNY OR ANYTHING, BUT SOMETIMES DURING SEX YOU NEED TO BE SOMEWHAT INTO YOUR SELF..."



Is oral sex safe?
Yes, oral sex won't harm you or your baby, provided you're in a monogamous relationship where both you and your partner are HIV-negative. In fact many consider it a nice substitute if intercourse is deemed too risky. If you're not sure what your partner's HIV status is, then you need to use a dental dam (a sheet of latex that you place between your genitals and your partner's mouth) because there's some evidence suggesting that a person may be able to transmit HIV through micro-abrasions or tiny cuts in his mouth.

Which positions are the most comfortable?

Here are some time-tested positions and tips for making love while you're pregnant:

• Lie sideways. Having your partner on top demands increasingly creative gymnastics as your tummy swells. But lying partly sideways allows your partner to keep most of his weight off your uterus.

• Use the bed as a prop. Your bulge isn't an obstacle if you lie on your back at the side or foot of the bed with your knees bent, and your bottom and feet perched at the edge of the mattress. Your partner can either kneel or stand in front of you.

• Lie side-by-side in the spoon position, which allows for only shallow penetration. Deep thrusts can become uncomfortable as the months pass.

• Get on top of your partner. It puts no weight on your abdomen and allows you to control the depth of penetration.

• Have your partner enter you from a sitting position, which also puts no weight on the uterus. Try sitting on your partner's lap as he sits on a sturdy chair.


Have faith — where there's a will, there's a way. With a little experimenting, you and your partner are sure to find a technique that works for you.

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Answer 3

The answer to that is no, based on the general def of rough sex if there is bruising involved to your stomach area or inserting things objects deep inside it can cause a miscarriage

Answer 4

Not rough sex at the time of conception but rough sex later on.

Answer 5

Unless your 6 months pregnant and your hubby is hung like a mule... I'm thinking ur ok, Bang Away

Answer 6

No, the baby is well protected, especially during the early stages of pregnancy.

Answer 7

Sex does NOT hurt a fetus.....they are protected pretty good in there. Well unless he's like punching you in the stomach while your doing it.

Answer 8

Nope you can't hurt the baby

Answer 9

if you don't even know if you're pregnant yet, than the "baby" is too small to notice it. You are probably fine.

Answer 10

not in the beginning stages,its not developed enought to hurt it that way.unless ya got kicked in the stomach or something