M very upset with my life. Everybody here in this world hate me. i feel like dying. i got 1 best friend in my life and yesterday we had a huge fight and i left him. M alone now. what to do? Plz help.
2006-08-21 18:03:05 · 19 answers · asked by Jaspreet G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
come on. there gotta be more to life. you can't just give up already, you already made this far. just try to keep yourself occupied you know. make more friends and do more outdoor activies i no it sounds easy but hard to do. I think you shouldn't give up that easy tho, try to talk to your friend and to see if you gets can get back together. Don't give up trust me. I know how it feels like to be lonely and wish you had someone to talk to and you just feel like you are stuck in a box and aside from the rest of the world. but dont give up yet, something good always come in the end, if nothing good comes then its not the end. keep ya head up :)
2006-08-21 18:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by lilbabigurlb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are because I was just there myself. I have a best friend of 20yrs and last month we had our biggest fight ever. He didn't want to see or hear from me ever again, and I was devastated. I almost committed suicide over it, and now I am still alive and we are working things out. It will take some time, you both need time to cool down, and to give each other space to deal with things as they are. You can try to email him or call him in a while maybe and see if you can talk some things through. Be patient and if the friendship is worth it, then you will find the strength to try to work it out together.
2006-08-21 19:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by 2shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry that your life is not going the way it should be. If you regret the fight, it's important that you apologize to that friend. If not, spend some time on yourself. Go to a spa, or go to the mall, or something like that. Then, open up your little black book and call some people that you haven't seen in awhile and do something whether it be a movie or anything...
Good luck :/
2006-08-21 18:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by JitterBug589 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..this is not the way it shud be...If u really feel that u cant live without ur freind why did u fight in the first place...Go upto him/her and find out why the whole fight took place..try to rectify the mistake who ever did it ....and accept the fault and make it up.
Remember that u were not born for ur friend..Agreed that u like him/her but there are always to mend up. Keep cool.stay calm and think of ways to rebuild ur freindship..If u end ur life that means u are loosing good chances of loosing ur friends foreover right??? What will happen to ur parents...
Think about it and decide for urself...Good luck :)
2006-08-21 18:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by zooni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i am alone too but i dont think in that way.i know this is the bad time and it will go off in somedays.u can do lot of other things and by the way if u want i will be ur firend.send me ur yahooid.we can be friends.and dont be upset with life talk to me u will come to know how many problems everyone has.just email me. and about ur friend (by experience)dont tell ur friend that u feel lonely and nedd them express them that they need u and have fun with friends
2006-08-21 20:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it will pass and things will work out for the best. Hell I'm going through a grip of schiitt and I gotta keep moving. My best friend is trippin real tough and I haven't talked to her in a week but phuck it, My man is trippin plus I don't want him anymore anyway but really don't want to be alone, and I don't have anyone to truly talk to, BUT you gotta stay positive and focused on yourself. So in all, just stay positive and know that you are a fphucking rock star!!
2006-08-21 18:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by misnonyak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to here your pain....I know how you feel.
I lost a best friend not to long ago... BUt let me tell you something there is no reason for you stop living...
You will have a hard time getting over it.... And you might not get over it, but just remember the fun times you had with that friend...
Every thing will be O.K.
~Angela~
2006-08-21 18:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by The_Pet_Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it that nothing is forever.
Be happy with what you have today or tomorrow you may have more regrets
Be content with what good times you had with your friend and count yourself lucky. There are others who are less fortunate than you.
I am sure soon you will find someone worthy of your friendship with whom you can share your past snd look forward to your future
2006-08-21 21:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Nachiket D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont woory! i am soory 2 know abt u. U talk 2 ur best friend & u know I have also had fought with my close frnd last day but there's nothing 2 fell like dieing.
2006-08-21 23:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way... But here I am still struggling with my life... Do not lose hope... Remember that it is our own choice to be happy or to be sad. You need a lil more time to be with the Lord to see that life can be colorful if we want to...
2006-08-21 18:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by huggermugger4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋