Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We have been best friends for 5 years. We have been trying to have a baby for 6 months but we have made no progress. About 5 days ago he broke up with me because lately thats all I think about. I respect his reason for breaking up with me but he owes he $200 and I am deeply in love with him. We've been thruogh everything together suck as me being raped by a family member and us going through a misscarriage. Anyway yesterday I called him and told him that I am willing to change my ways if he would help me handle dissappiontment in another way and hee simple said he didn't know if he wanted to get back with me. He told me he will call me back but I don't think he will. Do you think he will take me back?
2006-08-21 17:59:42 · 3 answers · asked by ponytail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ALL I CAN SAY IS IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL COME BACK TO YOU I KNOW ITS HARD BUT TIME HEALS WOMBS MAYBE YOU NEED TO TRY AND FOCUS MORE ON YOU AND HIM FOR NOW AND THE RIGHT TIME WILL COME FOR YOU GUYS TO HAVE A BABY IF THAT IS WHAT IS TO HAPPEN THE WAY I SEE IT THAT BELIEVE IT OR NOT GOD HAS A PLAN FOR EVERYONE AND MAYBE ITS JUST NOT YOUR TIME TO HAVE A BABY RIGHT NOW . IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH ALREADY AND MAYBE RIGHT NOW HE JUST WANTS TO HAVE YOU AND ENJOY YOU JUST GIVE HIM SOME TIME HE WILL COME AROUND BUT GIVE HIM THAT SPACE HE MUST NEED IT RIGHT NOW AND BY YOU CALLING HIM AS MUCH AS I'M SURE YOU WANT TO CALL HIM I THINK FROM EXPERIENCE MIGHT ONLY PUSH HIM AWAY CAUSE YOU WILL NOT GIVE HIM ENOUGH TIME TO THINK AND HE MAY HAVE TO GIVE YOU AN ANSWER YOU DONT' WANT TO HEAR CAUSE YOUR WANTING AN ANSWER SO QUICK SO BE PATIENT AND STAY STRONG AND AGAIN LIKE I SAID IF YOU GUYS ARE STRONG FROM WHAT IT SOUNDS LIKE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT AND SOMEDAY YOU GUYS CAN BE HAPPY AGAIN
2006-08-21 18:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by happy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa I have been in a 6 year relationship kind of similar and we have one son and ababy on the way I am not happy but he is but for someone who is so excited about this unexpected baby he's never around and that hurts. But I love him with everything in that's not there for my son, maybe he feels useless right now and you should try to focus on getting some understanding and/or communication in your relationship before bring a baby in this world. Love always conquers all!
2006-08-21 18:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go. If he can't stick with you through hard times now, if you did get him back how could you trust him not to just leave again so easily at some future time. It must hurt and I feel sorry for what you're going through, but you shouldn't have to be the one begging the guy to stay. You deserve a stick around kind of man.
2006-08-21 18:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋