How do I help my fiance control his temper so he wont end up in trouble? Its like I try to tell him what can happen if he do something crazy to someone. I always tell him that its some people out there in this world more crazier than you..As far as I go he doesnt threaten me or anything. Its just towards other people he does that to. He is a smart guy as far as school and knowing his responsibilites. But when he gets angry its like to the point that he could shoot some one and it is scary to me because he has a good future ahead of him even if he with me or not , and he has 2 nieces and one nephew that just loves him to death. I love him very much too and I want us to have the future together that we been dreaming about and I want him to be there for his nieces and nephews because they look up to him a lot and he very well knows this but its going to be one day at the wrong time that his temper is not going to pay off for him and i dont know how to reach out to him.
2006-08-21 17:55:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there is not much you can do except to tell him to just don't get angry over stupid things its not worth it. But I really think you should get some serious help and find a thrapy for him to talk out and solve this temper problem before it goes really bad.
2006-08-21 18:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by lilbabigurlb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen Shea,
Unless this man goes to anger managment and gets this under control, don't marry him.
I grew up in a family with a father just like you're describing, and he made our lives h*ll. You're thinking he'll get better, or you can help him. NO, he will get worse. The first one he will start to turn on is you. Please for your future, and the kids you may have, take this advice.
He may be wonderful in other ways, but he needs to get these demons under control before you can plan a stable life with him.
2006-08-21 18:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe get him to meditate..or when he is angry to think abt the one he loves...
2006-08-21 18:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him to see a counsellor
2006-08-21 18:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anger management therapy...
2006-08-21 17:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from him
2006-08-21 18:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋