2006-08-21 17:54:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The both of you knew the possibility of pregnancy was there when you decided to have sex, so now that you are pregnant he just has to deal with it. Abortion is soooooooooooo wrong. That child didn't ask to be here, you two made that choice. So what do you do now? Have the baby, get child support if he decides to leave (do not let him get away and think he doesn't have to support this child), and do the best you can to raise this child. Pose this question to him....how will he feel living day after day knowing that he killed an innocent child? Can you live with that choice if you cave in and do what he wants as well? Adoption is an option as well. Start looking for a good family to give that baby to. There are millions of people out there that want and can support a child, but just can't have one. Weight your options and do what's in your heart. I can guarantee you, that once you see that baby you will want to do whatever you can to take care of it.
Be smarter next time, get on the pill AND use condoms.
Good Luck.
2006-08-21 18:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Pregnant is a beautiful blessing. You need to sit down and discuss with you partner why they don't won't this baby. Be fair and understanding and try find the best answer to resolve this issue. If no answer is found,than be a single parent if the guy doesn't want the baby. Sometimes after a child is born guys are happy you had the child. If the guy wants the child and the girl doesn't. Ask the girl to carry the child and give birth and then sign over parental right. Then work out the details. Remain calm at all time during the discussion. Weigh all the options. There is an answer. Everything Happens for a reason.
2006-08-22 01:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him why not? If this is something that you really want and he cares about you then you shouldnt have to question him why he doesnt want this child. I mean that child is going to be his flesh and blood , what could be more beautiful than that. Even though that this wasnt planned he still should consider how you feel. If he doesnt want it though, forget him bc he cant do nothing for you. if he cant care for his child and not have feelings for him or her thats just cruel..dont let him and his inconsiderate feelings talk you into something you dont want to do. Whatever you do decide you consider and research everything avaliable to give this child the best life you see that possible for you both. Good Luck.
2006-08-22 01:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave and have my baby if your partner can not see the beauty of the life that he helped create then he has a problem. Good luck
2006-08-22 01:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by applebottomchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the one who is carrying the child it is your choice. He should of thought about that before he got you pregnant. Be the best mommy you can be men come and go but your kids will be there for the rest of your life.
2006-08-22 01:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep the baby. I wouldn't stay in the relationship any longer. He just doesn't want anymore responsibilites. That means he can hardly take care of himself and men what can you say
2006-08-22 01:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by iseestupidpeopleeverywhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur partner to face reality..it should be accepted by both..
2006-08-22 00:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard decision. i'msorry if you are stuck in between. but i would keep the baby if i want it.
2006-08-22 01:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by miss_nads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the baby. you will regret it later. good luck!
2006-08-22 00:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
????????? R u serious let him know pregnant pussy's the best.
2006-08-22 00:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋