My boyfriend and i been doin bass 2 for 2 years and we broth know each other how we feel about each other Do you think it time for me to DO IT!!!!!!! onr not
am 14 and half
2006-08-21 17:44:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well its not up to no 1 but yourself, if you think your ready then do what you do. Dont listen to him either. Only you know whats right. 2 yrs is a long time, so u should know him very well. Your 14, an that is young. I lost my virginity when I was 14 an im now 16. Try to get ahold of the pill an make sure you use a condom. I myself think you should wait until your at least 15, but thats just me. ~*Good Luck & Hope I Helped*~
2006-08-21 17:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by 8_letters_3_words_1_meaning 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wus 15 when i had sex, and i thought i was ready but i wasnt. im 16 now. and the fact that ur askin if ur ready should already tellu u are not. it is totally up to u , but remember the next step isnt sex, it should be love, marriage then sex. sex is very sacred and revealing and loving act that should be performed to ur husband or wife, but these dayz its easy to be side traked. u r still young , my cuzin was havin sexat the age of nine andthe first time she had sex she got pregbant now shes 12 with a 3 year old and she woulve been in 8th grade this year but shes always wit the baby and since shes not old enuff to get a job or drive she depends alot on her older brother whos 18 to drive her places and helpo her out cuz the boy she had sex wit was 10 at the time and wus not tryna hear that he was a father anf him and his family moved so thas juss a glimpse of how difficult sex is and she used a condom. believe that ur worth the wait, theres no rush for sex u got ur whole life and trust u will have alot more offers so be careful and stay smart.
2006-08-21 18:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think you're ready to have sex? I think what is happening is you're going through puberty and you feel your body changing.
Well if you don't know how big the boobs get - then probably you should get some education about how the human body works. Just so that you don't get yorself in trouble. Get condoms at least, and learn how to use them. You sure don't want to get pregnant. Never ever have unprotected sex unless you are ready to have babies. Clearly, at 14 you are not ready for babies. But no protection is fully guaranteed.
Realize that you're not legal age yet, so I wouldn't recomment it.
2006-08-21 18:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that you are not. I did not loose my virginity until I was 16 when I knew that I found the man I would love for a long time. One of the biggest mistakes that we made was because we were both virgins we never used a condom and don't until this day. I have been through 2 miscarriages. Please don't make the same mistake that we have made. Use a condom
2006-08-21 18:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by ponytail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, if you have to ask the question you are not ready for sex, or it's responsibilities that come along with having sex. It is better to wait for Mr. Right than to lose all respect for yourself and your boyfriend. When you cross that line of respect you are opening the road to many disappointments and maybe some self gratitude for the moment but not for a life time. Don't let your infactuation with your boyfriend spoil a lifetime of happiness for yourself for waiting. Cause there will come a time in your life when you will ask yourself "Why didn't I wait till Mr Right came along". "It wasn't as big of an ordeal as they put out in movies, books, songs, or your friends may talk about. Please wait till you are older and ready to not ask the question "I think I am ready for sex!!!" If you have to "think" about it you are not ready.
2006-08-21 18:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Cathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been messing around since you were twelve?? Where is your mother and do you have any self respect? 12-14 year olds should be skating and going to the malls with the girls. No playing rub and tug with some boy. Please tell me he is your age and that you are not one of the sad little girls who looks for a daddy figure in 20+ year old men. Please wait find some other way to entertain yourselves and keep your cloths on.
2006-08-22 16:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by kathy r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are ready then go for it,and make the biggest blunder of your life. Hold on darling,at your age they are other things to do and learn.You are a virgin stay one until you get married. Loose your virginity and you will always feel guilty of doing so. Give your husband the pleasure of popping your cherry.
2006-08-24 07:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age the answer is NO. It is in fact statutory rape in some countries. In any case you should not engage in sex until you know what it is truly all about and that you can be responsible for the consequences including looking after a baby.
2006-08-21 17:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by ancalagon2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to be a mother? That's the purpose of sex, you know. Procreation. If you're not ready for motherhood, stick to recreational forms of sexual play and wait to "do it" until you're ready to change diapers.
Do you really want to join the hundreds of other teenage posters around here who have to ask if they are pregnant because they decided sex would be a fun thing to play with? Sex is serious business. Trust me. Stick to oral play and mutual masturbation until you're settled down.
2006-08-21 17:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kya Rose 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. Along with sex comes responsibility. If you are asking if you think it's time for you to have sex, then you are too young and immature to face up to the consequences that can come with an active sex life.
2006-08-21 17:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by brendalyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋