When someone plays you like a harp, tricks you so you fall into their trap and they backstab you. It is an awful shock and a terrible feeling, doing this only to humiliate you, to hurt you...
2006-08-21 17:07:04 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i know...they make you trust them, make you feel safe and and just when you let your guard down...they just let it all go and the bomb drops and everything goes down the tubes. it hurts so badly and feels so horrible. why do they do it
2006-08-21 17:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya,it does, I was in love with this girl, but for some reason she totally stop the relationship for no reason, she told me that she don't know why but she just doesn't want to continue. I was so heart-broken, still this day I don't know what was the reason, but mutual person(s) we know told me it was infidelity by her and she couldn't live with the guilt. So really I don't know if that was the reason or it was something else, I know there she had issues and there was issues after the breakup, but I do miss her, yet I must continue with my life. My advice for you is time will heal, just remember your experience with this person, and try not to think to much about. You will find that person, that you know will continue to love you unconditionally. You sound like a really good person inside and out, so don't stress to much, but always remember who you are and what you have accomplished. There is light always at the end of the tunnel, a new beginning awaits.
2006-08-22 00:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just try to be strong and know that next time, you'll be careful about who you trust. Really, though, everyone's been betrayed at some point, and you just have to get on with life and make the best of it.
2006-08-22 22:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by WaterfallOfDestiny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a terrible thing to abuse a trust. i have been stabbed in the back by many "friends". Unfortunately, i have unintentionally hurt a few people also.......humility and forgiveness are completely necessary in this life.
2006-08-22 00:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I've been hurt like that many times before, but I've learned to just forgive and forget.
2006-08-22 00:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a way, it can be purifying. You get to find out who the person really is; it comes to you in an instant.
2006-08-22 00:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Celt Pagan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's happened to us all. From your question, I would say it happened to you very recently. No one likes being treated this way. It will get better, stay away from the person who treated you so badly. Don't torture yourself.
2006-08-22 00:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you're better off without them. Be thankful you know this now and not 10 years on.
2006-08-22 00:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by PommyTom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it really hurts when somebody betrays you esp if it is your friend but we cant deny the fact that anyone can betrays us so just find people who can be trusted and you truly knows..........
2006-08-22 00:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by john jerold s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea! It's like they rip out your heart and their stomping on it! Even if you didn't like them in the first place!
2006-08-22 00:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋