Im a 22 year old married women who has never had an orgasm durning sex. But ive had one in my sleep what should I do different to get one durning sex, insted of faking them all the time?
2006-08-21 17:04:57 · 23 answers · asked by dareyell2005 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
We have watched Porn and did everything that we could think of thanks for the help.
2006-08-21 17:16:45 · update #1
ride him, youd be surprised
2006-08-21 17:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please to not fake them as it will eventually catch up with you. Is your husband pre-mature in his ejucaulations. How much foreplay do you have before y'all have a sexual encounter? That in itself means a lot. It is very apparent that you are not getting the satisfaction that you desire with your husband. I don't know you but I say he is "premature". What about oral sex? Do you like that, or has he even tried it. I am old enough that I can tell when the chemistry is right and when we both wlll have a climax together. The palpations, the sweat, the wet kisses, the screaming. It is all there. It is wonderful...
I would talk with him about your feelings. Tell him to get you a "TOY", and both enjoy....
2006-08-21 17:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt uncommon for women to not orgasm during sex with a man. Only a woman knows what they need to get there....to help acheive one during sex with your partner, masturbate, sues a vibrator if you want, you may find he likes the idea. If he is insulted by it, just tell him you wanna try something new to add to the excitement. You deserve to get the most out of making love, he gets to have one every time, why shouldnt you get to experience the same pleasure?
2006-08-21 17:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Fade__Out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really are not doing much good by faking your orgasms. You need to show your husband how and where to touch you, and the best position when penetrating so he can learn to bring you to orgasm.
2006-08-21 17:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried watching different porn movies ? Do you think any of the tricks may help your problem ?
First off, watch it yourself and picture if that will help you. If you think it may, then watch it with your husband and suggest you try that.
How's that sound ? 10 points ?!
2006-08-21 17:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay down on your back...And have your husband sit on the side of you and let him eat you from to side..Make sure to tell him not to stop..cause when they stop you have to start working the feeling up all over everytime..That was the only that worked for a while...Another thing you could do..is lie down lay down in your bathroom tub and scoot your bottom under the flowing water..that's bound to make you climax..Or also the shower head hold the water down there for a while...Or get a viberating back massager and put it on you know what..it'll be wonderful....Have fun ; )
2006-08-21 17:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by lawasso j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how to tell you what to do different because i don't know what you do now! some women never ever get to experiance an orgasm. i would buy a book on different techniques and/or positions....good luck!!
2006-08-21 17:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is your problem, you are faking it. If the man is not pleasing u, let him know because you are lieing to yourself and to him and you are being miserable and when he finds out that you are faking you will make him feel miserable. advice: go to any GMC and buy for him proman-x and for you buy v-power for woman. or ask at the couter for afrodiciacs for both. good luck and stop fakin'.
2006-08-21 17:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by einsteinliam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and remember and recreate the dream associated with the orgasm... otherwise you may just need other forms of stimulation... experiment around with your partner or alone so you can figure out what you want
2006-08-21 17:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Meemah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax and really think about it...I have always had this problem, until recently...I always thought I was gonna pee. I never knew that was the feeling you get before you...well ya know what I mean...
2006-08-21 17:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy that can hang in there for more than 3 minutes!
2006-08-21 17:09:30 · answer #11 · answered by rscanner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋