Maybe because they and (everyone else) can never know you and understand you completely. They can't know what you know about yourself; they can't see the world and your situation through your eyes. They don't know what goes on in your head, or what makes you tick. In this way we are all alone. I think the best thing we can do to alleviate this loneliness, is reveal ourselves more deeply to the ones we love. Perhaps you feel you can't, or shouldn't, expose your inner self, and maybe you're right. This is not a perfect solution; there are risks, costs, even dangers, and no guarantees. Perhaps I'm a fool and it is a bad idea that will only cause trouble, but it's the only solution I can think of, and perhaps there are great rewards.
2006-08-21 17:02:04
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answered by tizzoseddy 6
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Because feeling good about yourself doesn't come from someone else being around, or loving you, or anything like that. When you say feeling alone, I assume you mean lonely or maybe depressed? Only you can make you feel good. It is wrong, and even an impossible weight and responsibility to place on another's shoulders to attempt to give them the responsibility for how you feel. Think about what you want and need to make you feel more complete, or happy. It could be something as simple as a chemical imbalance causing depression, or perhaps you need to develop some interests of your own, and do some things for yourself.
2006-08-22 00:02:29
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answered by mchlmybelle 6
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maybe because you feel that you cannot really opened up to them, for fear of judgement or simply because you do not want them to know u have some insecurities. what u need to do is find somebody that u can really relate to, somebody whose u r not afraid to be ur 'true' self and who will always accept you no mattter what u tell them.try to broaden your horizon, sometimes the least unexpected person can really surprised you!i found that my late grandma was that someone..who would have guessed a woman 50 years gap from me can understand so much?? :) all the best!
2006-08-22 00:46:03
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answered by aishah 5
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Because he is not your soul-mate. He doesn;t know and understand you completely. Both of you didn't reach the intimacy you wanted. You can't connect completely with him. You expect him to know what you're thinking and you are dissapointment when he don't, sort of incompatibility.
You may love him but he is not your soul-mate. Soul-mate is 1 in a million to find. Good luck..
2006-08-22 04:11:17
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answered by wishingforpeace 3
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Becos u feel so... maybe u still have somethings u are unable to accomplish and you feel something is missing, though that special someone may say he loves u but u feel empty inside... or u dun love that someone ..... u mistake him as your love... maybe u shld be clear of ur feelings.
2006-08-21 23:35:31
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answered by veramira 3
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i've never felt like that, i think maybe u should go see a psychiatrist.
2006-08-21 23:35:54
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answered by rockguitar17 1
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because you need to love yourself too
2006-08-22 18:20:18
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answered by mochi.girl 3
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