2006-08-21 16:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is your best friend then their must be something that is bothering her and, maybe she doesn't feel that she can confide in you yet. You could try to sit down with her and explain the way you feel she has been treating you, and that if their is something that is troubling her you are there for her. Let her know that her friendship means a lot to you. Let her know that if what ever it is that is going on that if she isn't ready to discuss it with you that, when ever she is ready you will be there for her. I think a real good one on one with her is your best course of action if you really consider her your best friend. Keep in mind that a true friend is always there no matter what.
2006-08-21 16:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend of over 5 years, I supported, but she supported me in my finances, up and moved out yesterday. It's been over 24 hours now, and I am beginning to see, that she only wants to be friends. It's hard for me to take, but, she and a lot of aquantances tell me, it's time be true friends with her, but get another woman. It's a hard descision, but, I feel, as the hours go by, a realization, that my ex means the best for me, and it is up to me to be the one to get on with my life. We still have feelings for each other, even though it's heavy argueing. It's hard to put your self into the frame of mind that you are only friends. But, after thinking of my entire life, how it went; that's what makes best friends. I'm more worried about losing my ex as a friend, than I am about losing her as a girlfriend. She's a friend, best friend, but, I now realize, not my girlFRIEND. Sorry about capital letters.
2006-08-21 23:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by palon1957 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is not supposed to be hard. Life is already hard as it is and friends are supposed to make you feel better about it or help you deal with it.
You have to tell your friend how you feel. If she does not rectify her ways, then you're better off without her.
2006-08-21 23:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is mean she must not be a very good friend...i know we all have our days of not feeling so well and being cranky...but someone being really mean i would not want to be friends with myself.....
2006-08-21 23:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and talk to her. If she can't handle it maybe it's time to end the friendship
2006-08-21 23:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by BLADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be selective
2006-08-21 23:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to not be so mean or you will not hang around for it
2006-08-21 23:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know?! iv'e never been through that progress before!
2006-08-21 23:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by janelui03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you care for her
2006-08-21 23:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by verdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋