Hey.. I used to be in love with this guy... I told him.. he helped.. but it hurt.. I've been over him for a while and when I was at the airport with him seeing him off, I ran into his arms and flung my arms around his neck.. It was enthusiastic.. anyways, hes back now and I might be seeing him this Saturday.. I'm confused because since he's been gone I'm back into a crying phase about him.. I've cried twice in the past week because of him. I'm scared to see him because I'm scared that I will be enthusiastic and he'll be ignoring me.. while he was gone he talked to me on msn.. but I'm just scared that I might be all enthusiastic and he'll be like I don't really want to talk to you right now.. He's one of my closest friends, and we talk about everything. It's just.. I'm scared.. and I'm confused. I'm so confused.. like why am I worrying? Anyway.. please someone help me... and please please please no stupid answers... I really can't handle it right now... thanks...
2006-08-21 16:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The problem is I DON'T like him!!!! We were joking around acting all flirty (like my head on his shoulder at the movies) to bug my cousin.. but then we did it when my cousin wasn't there.. I mean it was like OMG OMG hes using you. It was just silly flirting.. but alot of flirting.. and yeah... I'm not really sure why I'm worrying.. but I think this might be why...
2006-08-21 16:28:24 · update #1
So you like to play games and now you are scared you will hurt him. You should be! You are not confused about anything. Learn to be honest about your feelings. You sound like a drama queen....who is sincerely insincere. And now you are looking for a way out because of your dishonesty.
2006-08-26 18:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u need to talk to him seriously in private and just start a conversation and maybe u guys will get closer by talking more and hanging out more together or maybe hes acting wierd because ur one of his closest friends!!!!
2006-08-29 22:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to control urself when u go see him this saturday. just like girls are afraid of guys being too pushy, guys also are afraid of girls being too desperate. since u r able to say anything to him y not confess ur feelings for him then and there. then u can either have him as your bf or know that he doesnt wanna be anything more than a friend with u
2006-08-21 23:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you DON'T like him?? And what are you so scared of?? That he might be using you?? If he is....then just get over him. You'll find someone better!! Well......u don't need to listen to me!! I'm no expert or anything!! Just trying to help!! Even though I don't know anyone on here. But that's okay!!
2006-08-29 21:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shay-Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop overthinking this situation. He is just a guy and they come a dime a dozen. Go see him and if he happens to be enthusiastic to see you then you have your answer, if he doesnt then you have that answer too and i would stop talking to him then.
good luck.
2006-08-21 23:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your crying, and you feel confused, maybe, just maybe you do love him deep down inside and just havent figured that part out yet. Just take it slow, one step at a time, and when you see him you will know for sure.
2006-08-29 19:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect the worst and hope for the best! It sounds like you really care about him! Don't have a high expectations and you can't be let down.
2006-08-21 23:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dana J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not over him. He is over you. He disregards your thoughts and feelings. He is continually breaking your heart without the merest of feeling. I will not tell you what to do or how to do it. I will ask you to think of changing your heart and mind about this guy. Protect your heart from being torn and broken.
2006-08-21 23:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so enthusiastic, especially if you don't like him. Move on and find someone who'll make you happy.
2006-08-29 22:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Frank R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dont want u anymore stop pushin and if u want him back talk to him dont push that much okay
2006-08-29 21:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋