2006-08-21 15:56:33 · 9 answers · asked by Qusan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First stop blaming yourself. All people do this at least once in their lifetime.
Find something to distract yourself. Pour yourself into school or work. Take up a hobby or sport. Exercise. Travel. Avoid activities that remind you of him/her. Volunteer your time to benefit someone else. Clean your house from top to bottom.
You won't be able to stop thinking of him/her at first. But every day, every week that goes by you will be less and less addicted.
Get away from the TV, get off the computer. Do something physical and distracting.
Give yourself time, resist the urge no matter what to contact them again. Delete emails, refuse IM's, return letters, avoid places that he/she might be. Do all of this until enough time has passed that you are not tempted by this self destructive behavior. Good luck.
2006-08-21 16:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ohn a chatlinhe and meet some new people to boost yoru confidence =) Hang out with some friends or go to a bar on a ladies night <3 Goodluck, I know it is tuff, we have all been there.
Lose the guy and gain one who will want and give you everything you deserve =)
2006-08-21 23:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by sw33t_l34f_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep reminding yourself that it was onesided and you are the only one who cared. Keep yourself busy with other things to do so you dont have to stew over it anymore.
2006-08-21 23:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate yourself from that person completely. Out of sight will eventually lead to out of mind. The emptiness will eventually fade with time. I know how you feel...I've been there and...it sucks.
2006-08-21 23:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some one who like you for who you are and look at their good points and see if love prvails
2006-08-21 23:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dan O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy. Simple as that. Counseling will help you understand yourself better, and then you can make positive changes...whatever that might mean for you and your situation.
2006-08-21 23:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and find someone who cares about you.
2006-08-21 23:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who truly care`s about you and it won`t be one sided,,good luck!!
2006-08-21 23:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by ernchesshir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fill it with friends until you meet someone new.
2006-08-21 23:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋