he left us with all kinds of bills and now i was forced to move in with my parents he wants either full or 50-50 custody and if he gets it i know my daughter wont be in good hands what do i do
2006-08-21 15:54:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry this is happening to you. Can you consult a lawyer about the best way to address it in court? Also it doesn't sound like he's responsible enough to have ANY custody, I would even question unsupervised visitation rights, since he left both of you to find housing and with lots of unpaid bills. It seems like you will have to support your words in court if you say that your daughter won't be in good hands with him - why not? If you are asked, you should be prepared to answer, like do you think he'd leave her alone while he went out, would he put his own needs before hers, would he choose friends or a girlfriend over spending time with her, etc. I really hope it works out for you and I wish you the best of luck come October.
2006-08-21 16:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by JRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a attonery
If you get a good attonery you will not have to worry. Your ex dosent sound like a good man and I can think of a million things that are gonna give him a hard time convincing a judge to give him full custody. Is his name on the birth certificate? If not he cant ask for full custody without a DNA test since you were not married.
2006-08-21 16:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just keep your daughter in mind and do whatever it takes to get full custody. Get as much proof as you can showing you are better fit for having her in your care. Unless you have some damning evidence showing your ex is an unfit parent (such as criminal record, drug testing, etc), he will be granted some sort of custody/visitation.
2006-08-21 16:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please, it's a scare tactic guys use all the time. Just have your paperwork for the judge showing what you are telling us. Has he been paying child support since he "abandoned" you and your daughter? If not he has bigger things to worry about. Unless he can prove you to be unfit, then you don't have to worry about him at all. And there are crackheads with their children so don't worry. Most of all, trust God...........and besides that you were not married so where does he think he gets 50/50 from, he can get VISITATION and thats about it...............He should have thought about all of that when he left, and I wouldn't even argue with him, make him sweat for a change...........
2006-08-21 16:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by SweetT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while you're severe approximately retaining in touch including your daughter then ask daybreak to take the try. clarify which you're a million million% on her section and dont have self belief for one 2d that she is an addict, yet that ifshe loves you she would have the ability to take the try because of the fact your daughter is extremly substantial to you. If she nonetheless refuses to take the try then its sparkling that your thoughts are not that substantial to her, and he or she isn't the main remarkable female for you. If she does take the attempt to it comes returned sparkling then Stacy has no floor to stand on, as she is incorrect in her accusations. If it comes returned constructive then you definately will might desire to make a call between your daughter and daybreak, making an allowance for that she has been mendacity to you over her drug utilization. Blood is thicker than something, daybreak ought to bypass away every time she needed yet your daughter will continuously be your daughter.
2016-10-02 09:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does he have a good job and his own place? you living with your parents shouldnt matter to the courts, but if they feel like hey well he has more than you plus a good lawyer you are screwed, you have 2 options, 1- get a good lawyer if you can afford it and say all the bad stuff about him or 2- take your kid and leave town asap never come back.
myself i would leave and never come back, 50/50 isnt rite,
2006-08-21 16:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any way you can prove they will not be in good hands? If you can do' Do it. That's all it will take. besides this guy must be a dumb as$ . The simple reason is the law leans to the woman. Go talk to a good lawyer' find out for yourself.
2006-08-21 16:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for 50/50, that's what my mom did and I'm happy w/it, I'm older now so it really doesn't matter what the court says, I stay w/my mom most of the time and see my dad 2/3 times a month
2006-08-21 16:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight it! He probably only wants custody so that he doesn't have to pay child support! What a bastard!
2006-08-21 16:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the best for YOU to get full cutody show he courts everything ad about him and everything good about you
that will help alot
good luck
2006-08-21 16:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋