I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 10 months now. I really like him and I know he likes me. I guess you could say that I am in love with him, and I have this gut feeling that he is too, but he is scared to say it. We have been in situations where I know he want to say it, but it just doesn't come out. I want to say as well, but I am kinda scared to say it first, I know its sound weird. But if I can get some advice on this.
2006-08-21 15:31:47 · 30 answers · asked by Crystal Ball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When the time is right you both will automatically tell each other. Why rush about it. At least your not jumping into something so fast.
Good come to those who wait! I'm sure you do love each other or else you wouldn't still be together right?
2006-08-21 15:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't wait for him to say it first. If you really want to say "I Love YOu", do it. Its not a race or a contest of whoever holds out the longest wins.
Be spontaneous. If you feel like its the right time to say it, then say it.
However, some guys say "I love you too" to avoid an awkward situation. Like they're forced to say it even if they don't mean it because their girlfriend said it first.
But it doesn't matter. Just tell him how you feel.
2006-08-21 15:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez lady, there are a ton of answers for this. The head answer always works by the way. You could always tell him you love him after you've been together long enough, seduce him, ummm, I don't know, buy him something he likes. It really shouldnt be that hard, and if he doesnt say it within 3-4 months, than he might be in it just for the sex....and if you havnt been having sex with him and he is still with you..........he's gay.
2006-08-21 15:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by obeythemightysquirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make any one say they love you if he does he will tell you in time and if you truly love it should not be a who does it first that's just a game silly people play. And if it is really bothering you just say look baby i love you how do you feel about me. If that's too direct for you leave him a sweet little note.
2006-08-21 15:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Eisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple things here...you have a "gut feeling" and you think he is "just too scared"...I would be careful about these assumptions. If you have to "make" him say, what's the point? Be patient.
2006-08-21 15:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
10 months is not really long enough to know that. if you try to press it on him he will get creeped out and start to grow away from you. he will tell you when he is ready. love is not affection but is often mistaken for so. you will know with absolute certainty when it is time for you but will not for him. keep up with the relationship and eventually love may grow out of it but you must be patent.
2006-08-21 15:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by мΛІ€ҢΛр™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are....
If you are under 18 - don't rush it.
If you are over 18 - ten months is too long!
Will you wait 20 years before he gets the nerve to ask you to marry him?
2006-08-21 15:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend told me after we made love.So everyone has a different situation for the first time that is said when the time is right one of you will spill the beans.
2006-08-21 15:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by cissie1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is afraid of the word or the commitment it may mean. so guys are shy,but then it all depends how he treats you..saying you love being with him means a great deal to you. and i hope you feel the same
2006-08-21 15:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off.....enjoy the relationship and if it meant to be....then it will happen. Guys do not like to be pushed. Afterall, it is just a word......how he treats is really what counts.....read between the lines, sweetie, you will know if it there.
2006-08-21 15:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋