I really want to know why in this world did I ruined my life and got married? Ireally want to know!!!! Buuaaaaaa!!!!! I really hate all the meaning of marriage I was so happy being single....
2006-08-21 15:22:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweety you got married because you thought you were really in love and ready and maybe you are you probably just having a little gitters but you will get over it. Cheer up you're not the only one in the world who thinks they had the same mistake just pray and God will see you threw .
2006-08-21 15:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by cupcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently at the time you felt like you were making the right decision or perhaps you were being pressured into it by your fiance or family members to go through with it.
You have two options in this situation though. You can make an whole-hearted effort to make it work, including therapy, open communication and just plain giving it a chance. Or you can take the easy way out as many couples do nowadays when things cannot seem to be resolved for one reason or another: get a divorce. I don't know if children are involved but obviously if there are none it will be alot easier for you now than if there are in the future because then you have to deal with child custody and support.
If you truly feel that you are walking around dead in this marriage you need to seriously consider ending the marriage if all else has failed....Good luck.....
2006-08-21 15:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to rub salt to the wound...but didn't you think about this before you married? marriage is hard and it's possibly the biggest decision in your life to decide if you want to be attached for eternity. sometimes there is no problem in the marriage. just the pressure to the the model wife, mom, daughter in law, etc etc etc. everyone has their expectations but only you know what you are capable of. so be proud of who you are and believe that you know what is best for you marriage. remember that divorce is never going to solve anything. and remember the reason you wanted to be married in the first place. good luck.
2006-08-21 15:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Director 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear thta i dont know why we must get married i woul like to say for a min we are just stupid and say yes and that is the end of the single live. i hope every thing gets a little better for you. good luck
2006-08-21 15:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by sweetangelflower69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a bad day? If it is all that bad get a D I V O R C E! Sheessshhhhhh, I wouldn't walk around that miserable for very long!
2006-08-21 15:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky for you,, i have to be engaged to a girl i dont know by families. engagement things ugh just be glad you dont have to put it up with my engagement i was engaged at 10 year old with a 9 year old now i am 19 she is 18 but this is not the question right.
Well tell me why whats your problem
2006-08-21 15:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Majority of the people marry for the wrong reasons.
2006-08-21 15:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your a dumba** i suppose....no one wants to hear you complain about a so-called "mistake " you made ok?Thats why theres a thing called marriage counseling..have fun.
2006-08-21 15:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you married the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
2006-08-21 15:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Conformity, and legal protection. But for what it is worth, I do understand the feeling.
2006-08-21 15:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋