each day when my little sister comes home from school she startes complaning about how kids pick on her and how she is geting mis treated. i dont no what to do about it I fell so bad and fell for her.what shuld i do?
2006-08-21 15:20:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would tell your sister to be strong and ignore what the other kids are saying. If it get to her too badly i would have her talk to her school councelor or her teacher! It's good that she has an older sibling to stand up for her :)
2006-08-21 15:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by MrsFrye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to talk to the teacher or a principal. Beyond that, all you can do is maybe show up at school one day and perhaps intimidate the bullies into leaving her alone (perhaps threats of calling the cops??)
Its just an unfair fact of life that there are going to be bullies and there are going to be victims; it just happens to be your sister this time around. Just be there for her; you may not be able to do anything more than be a good older sister and let her vent.
2006-08-21 15:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your sister what she is doing to make the other kids notice her enough to pick on her?
Also, your mom should be requesting mediation with the principal to iron this out. If her school doesn't have mediation, your mom should attend a school board meeting and bring it up as a new disciplinary action. Or one day, your sister could be holding the next semi-automatic weapon in her revenge come highschool.
2006-08-21 15:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she being picked at in the first place? could it be something she is doing? have a heart to heart talk with her. maybe u can show ur presence a bit in her school eg. pick her up if u can. dont do the 'fighting' for her but ur presence will show the kids u have ur sister's back. u can also talk to her teacher and work together on it. i would even go to the extend of inviting those kids for a little party...get to know them better...it could jolly well be a misunderstanding.
2006-08-21 15:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same prob with my lil sis..us being the older sisters should definitely do SOMETHING.Maybe try talking to school personnel and administration first.If they fail to do anything about it, I'd take matters into my own hands(which unfortunately, i was forced to do).I had her give me the names of the kids who were bothering her.And i eventually found theire parents names, street address, and even some phones numbers.And i walked her to the kids houses and I had a little chat with theyre parents AND them....all together so NO one would missunderstand a word i said.And let me tell you, ever since then, she hasnt problems with the same kids anymore.(its a protective sister emotion i believe....you dont realize just how vicous you sound when your fighting for your sisters/brothers.)But some ppl arent willing to do things that way.
2006-08-21 15:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You walk with her one day and let her point them out to you. Then real cool like, you say out loud where they can hear you, are those the kids? and she should real cool like say yeah (show no fear!) Then you two exchange knowing glances with each other and walk by them real close like, saying nothing and snub them. You send a very strong message here. And the message should read," don't **** with my sister, your messing with the wrong, *****!", DO NOT VERBALIZE THIS. Just be cool, they'll get that she has someone older than them that can pound their asses if need be.
2006-08-21 15:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, MAKE SURE YOUR PARENTS ARE MADE AWARE OF THE SITUATION. THEY MAY NEED TO GO TO SCHOOL AND TALK TO THE PRINCIPAL.
AS A BIG SISTER, CAN YOU MEET YOUR SISTER AFTER SCHOOL? IT WOULD TAKE SOME OF THE PRESSURE OFF OF HER. IF THAT'S NOT POSSIBLE, IS THERE ANYONE THAT IS OLDER THAN SHE, THAT YOU KNOW OF THAT COULD MAKE SURE THAT SHE STAYS SAFE.
BULLYING IS THE WORST OF THE WORST. I KNOW. I WENT THROUGH IT WHEN I WENT TO SCHOOL, UNTIL I FOUGHT BACK. I HATE THE FACT THOUGH, THAT YOU HAVE TO BECOME A VIOLENT PERSON FOR PEOPLE TO LEAVE YOU ALONE. GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-21 15:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by popcopgoldieoldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and her teachers right away. Bullies are being handled by many schools now but you you have to tell. And let them know you do not want the bullies to know you told. Good luck with this and let us know how it goes. It works fine. If not, let me know and I'll help you figure out how to stop it.
2006-08-21 15:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you first sit down and talk with her about what's been going on. If it's been physical abuse or verbal abuse, and has it been just one person. Then, tell a trusted adult about what has been going on.
No one should ever be bullied. Not verbally or physically.
However, you should keep in mind that your sister may be over exaggerating.
2006-08-21 15:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk her to school and let her point out the kids who are picking on her. Talk to those children. It will remedy the problem.
2006-08-21 15:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by greβ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋