him, me, and his boss....he says it is perfectly healthy to do this to spice up our sex life but I am not sure how to take the fact tha the wants another man i bed with us, let alone his boss, someone he sees everyday...any words of wisdom?
2006-08-21 15:17:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your husband is a scum bag. He wants to spice up HIS sex life, and you don't seem to matter much. I would get out while you still can. You made a mistake, fix it quick!
2006-08-21 15:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by 1,1,2,3,3,4, 5,5,6,6,6, 8,8,8,10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying way too hard to get a raise if you ask me!!!
I think threesomes end up leaving one of the two parties in the marriage feeling resentful and jealous....it's never a good idea...I can't imagine why he would want another man sleeping with his wife...usually men fantasize about having another woman if anything. If I were you I would use my instincts and say no...keep your dignity and self respect. There are many other ways to spice up your sex life without including other people in your bedroom.....
2006-08-21 22:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about this, but by how you describe the situation, You are totally uncomfortable with this. Let him know how you feel, and you will not feel right doing this. In some cases, it can enhance your sex life, but with the right person, but not with ANYONES boss. That to me is awkward! But never let yourself be pushed into something that isnt right for you, YOU are the deciding factor in this, so go with your gut instinct, and follow your heart as to whats right and wrong in your mind. Good luck making your decision.
2006-08-21 22:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a word of wisdom...RUN. no seriously...inventing another person in the bedroom is most definitely asking for trouble. Is he wanting to do stuff with the guy? or just watch him and you? If he's BI then you got a whole nother problem on your hands but anyways he should love you and only want to be with you. You took vowels before God ti\o be faithful to one another. Tell him NO.
2006-08-21 22:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kitten births, in-law flirtatiousness and now this. Just say no to it all and strive for normalcy. If the look on the face of your avatar is any indication, you could use some normalcy, sunshine, orange juice, joy and plain old cheering up.
2006-08-21 23:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it there should only be 2 in a marriage not 3
2006-08-21 22:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww. if he's your husband there shouldn't be a threesome. and plus its his BOSS. confront him and see why he wants this. other than the "spicing up your sex life" one.
2006-08-21 22:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its OK to fell that way just tell him i don't want to do this with your boss or any person at all. and if that dose not work then tell him how you really fell about it and if he dose not understand then just say that your not changing your mind. and that's that.
2006-08-21 22:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u sure he is a man 100% ???
2006-08-21 22:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by nonglnalak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to then dont. i think its kinda wierd for him to think thats normal
2006-08-21 22:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by tt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋