2006-08-21 15:08:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Usually if you listen to your gut feeling it is right. Use that first initial gut instinct.
Also look at their body language, and look to see if they can look you in the eye when talking to you. Listen to how they say things. Alot of times it is not what you say but how you say it. Just use common sense and listen to your own instincts.
2006-08-29 15:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old expression that to tell a good person from a bad person, watch the way he treats the helpless and weak. Watch how he treats animals, small children, old people, and service people (Is he demanding with the waiter or waitress). Wait a while before you come to a conclusion. Some folks can fake it for a while. Eventually the true person will come out if you are alert to it.
2006-08-26 15:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Big Bama Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well by instincts. Everytime I know a person is bad is by how I feel around them. If their good have a feeling of bonding, and you're open. If their a bad person then you have a gut feeling, like you can't bond and everytime that person looks at you, you feel unsafe or your hair stands up! I ain't that good, but that's how I can tell the difference....hope you understand!!??
2006-08-29 13:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_ndn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No easy answer. Only knowing someone after a long period of time can you actually see how they will treat you. If a person is an addict, can't hold down work, has erradic behavior or is cruel to you, other people or animals - you know this person is a bad one. Surrounding yourself with people you know you can trust and having them introduce you to new people is one of the better ways to be sure you stay safe - I hope you only find good people in your life! I'm sure you deserve it.
2006-08-28 15:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by pamela f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By their actions usually, but bad people are usually the best liars, so its very hard to detect sometimes. If you are in tune with yourself, then your intuition may tell you. I believe that you are thinking a person is bad, but dont have any kind of actions to back up how you are feeling. Trust your instincts, they are rarely wrong. Something is telling you this person is bad and for you to think that, then there has to be some creedance in it.
2006-08-27 21:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe if you have any social skills at all you should be able to tell. Are they nice to you? Then they might be a good person. Do they sell drugs to kids? Maybe they're a bad person. This is a dumb question. You should be able to have some instinct or intuiition to be able to tell whether they are good or not.
2006-08-28 15:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by alias_47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the person in the eyes. That is their vibe. You can find out by looking at the face also. If a person has a soft face then they have a soft behavior and if the person has a hard face/not so soft, the person has a hard behavior.
2006-08-29 14:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by polinafashion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By noticing if the person is a negative or positive person. But you need to study a person good. Because some can be so deceiving.
2006-08-21 15:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not always tell at first. It is something that may take time to get to the truth. Some people are good at covering it up and when it comes to light later you will wish you knew earlier.
be careful in theis area.
2006-08-28 19:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by debcooperpeterson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being around the person to see how they act and if they have any friends that shows a lot. Use your intuition
2006-08-29 13:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋