Okay here's the deal, I have never been involved in a same-sex relationship ever. The thing is, I think that a "straight" friend of mine has a thing for me, in which I kind of like her too. We met in college, graduated and now we just keep in touch through text message. She has a boyfriend and that is what is confusing me. Here's an example of a message convo, you be the judge: (exact quote)
her-hey buddy :) thought about ya today :) wanted to see how you were since you forgot about your friend :)
me-you thought about me, didn't think you cared :) Just been workin.
her-I text you hours ago! i'm still teaching :) bettin on dumb games :) I could always be your for winning something :)
Keep in mind, it had only been 3 weeks since we last talked. So be honest with me, am I reading more into than what it really is? Not really experienced with this sort of thing and it's hard to read because she can pretty much have any guy she chooses, so why me (a girl). Help!!
2006-08-21 14:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is a good thing!
It's our society that paints a distinct role for being straight -- if you are attracted, that doesn't mean you suddenly don't like men anymore.
If you "sense some energy" .. see what happens and explore it, find out more about yourself!
It's all good.
2006-08-21 17:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not really enough info to say weather or not she likes you or not... you could just be reading info that text...
But if your getting a vibe from her then maybe she is throwing something at you...only you would know that...we are only going by what you've put in your question...
Lastly.... OK she has a bf but that doesn't really mean anything, when i first came out i had 2 bf's and a gf so that doesn't really matta.... but it does sound like you may have a little crush on your friend.....
2006-08-22 03:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by T@J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a hard one because none of us have seen what you two are like when your around each other... What are some of the other things that might of happend.... I'm sure one text is not going to give you a clue.... So what else
2006-08-22 19:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she thinks about girls?
Sounds like you are into her. If you are friends just go in the direction of how she feels bi sexual?
I'm gay and I have straight girls hitting on me. I don't put much thought into it. It is just flirting.
2006-08-21 23:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by KD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r gay sorry but that is what i am reading u r making nothing out of something.just sounds like she wants to be good friends and that's sweet that she thought about u.that sounds like a good friend.
2006-08-21 23:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by joshaun l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she wants to be your friend. i think u are reading too much into it.
2006-08-21 22:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're reading something into this that isn't there?
2006-08-22 16:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not seein' it in there.
2006-08-21 22:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋