Is he like trying to make me effing jealous?!?! wtf he is 18 and is acting like a 16 year old. He went out with his mother today and "saw his ex" , okay you should know he kinda lies and he probaly dident even see her well thats what I kinda thought until this girl started calling him an asking him to go to starbucks and crap...WTF? and he is alwas telling me stuff that im not smart enough and i should be scared to loose him?!okay love is no game and idc if he thinks he is better and smarter if he loved me he would exept the fact he is 2 years wiser than I, and so is this girl. Honestly he plays to much games for this type of a realtionship! we have been going out for a few years and im 3 months preg. well if he wants to cheat i will just get one of my moms freinds to whip his a$* becuase lord knows he deserves it for what he is going to put me though!
okay i got that out! haha
2006-08-21 14:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My ex boyfriend is 24 and im 18 no matter what as long as they are older than you they will always think they are so much smarter and mature than you. I had almost the same problem as you. When I was about 2 months pregnant he started getting calls from his other babys mama and from there I dont know what happened we split up and I moved 3 hours away. I found out after we broke up he got back with her. What a suprise right? Now im 6 months pregnant and he has finally realize he has to grow up cause he has another baby on the way..Anyways im wondering why she had his number in the first place if you two have been together for a while? He obviously doesnt sound too smart if he doesnt realize he needs to step up and be a man. I guess hes another over grown little boy.
2006-08-21 14:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by evil_munchgin420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing? Do you have a clue? In the first place, he's a little boy pretending to be a man. He was right there for you as long as there was no responsibilty attached to the relationship. Now you are pregnant and he's started to play games with you. OH WHAT A SHOCK! I COULDN'T HAVE SEEN THIS COMING!
He's scared silly and doesn't know what to do. He doesn't want to be a daddy and doesn't feel up to it. He doesn't want to be to blame for breaking up because it would show everyone how really scared he is. So he's doing things to make you break it off.
What about you? You've been pretending to be a grown up for the last three years by playing house with a little boy. You've been having sex with someone who wasn't mature enough to shoulder the consequences of his actions. Are you any more mature than he is?
By the way--what you are going to go through? What about what the baby is going to go through! He's going to be another fatherless child being raised by a single mother who was never married to it's father. Wow!!! Such blessings you've heaped on this child! You should be so proud of yourself.
There's a VERY good reason to get married before you start screwing about and this is a perfect example of why it is a good idea to wait.
Because people who have sex without being married and get pregnant tend to be more immature and irresponsible than people who wait. (What a surprising idea that is!) They tend to only care about what they feel and think right now without giving any consideration to the future.
Well, you have a very complicated future to think about now. I suggest you start thinking about somebody besides yourself.
2006-08-21 15:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do you expect an 18 year old guy to act mature???? He's a kid! He's not treating you with respect and he sounds like a controlling personality. I know you are pregnant and that complicates things because you are so young but this guy isn't good for you or your baby.
2006-08-21 14:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by brainchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, If he is not treating you right lose him and you can frind somebody better and someone who acts there age and is he the Father of the baby and if he really loved you he would not treat you like that especially if he new that you were pregnant so I think you would be better off with out him. There are more better guy's out there that would not treat people like that . Actually i am luky i have a husband that loves me and treat's me good and pampers me and spoils me .
2006-08-21 14:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Craig and Ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know all of this and you are still with him thou... he needs you more than you need him so wake up and tell him so even if you are pregnant rite now you need to be in good health and by what you wrote you are not so tell him you need time and you will see after the baby comes and that should give you time to think and see if he straightens up or not bcuz even if he stays or goes you have a baby now to think of & that is what he should be doing to.
2006-08-21 14:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by blueseawale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you need to leave this guy alone. you dont need someone like that in your life, especially since you are about to be a mom. You really want someone like that around your kid, making your kid thinking it is ok to do that? make him leave, you'll be happier.
Good luck with your angel on the way!!
2006-08-21 14:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he shouldn't play mind games. Tell him to grow up or get out, you have way to much ahead of you to put up with that ****.
2006-08-21 14:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Riana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is simple - Child Support. You can do so much better without that a$$hole
2006-08-21 14:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by dropkickchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your typical A$$hole guy.
2006-08-21 15:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy s.h.i.t calm the f.u.ck down y do u care a lot about it... if u defined it to him them fairly its ur fault for giving him undesirable guidelines if hes ur boyfriend of direction u've universal him for a lengthy time period and u ahve to make issues more desirable sparkling fro him
2016-11-26 22:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by halyard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋