my best friends boy is going for my other best friend! help!
2006-08-21 14:27:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my bff's boy is going after my other bff! help!the girl who's being flirted with by the boy is practically yelling at Him "YOUR TAKEN YOU DOPE!!" but he keeps flirting with her while the other is soo ticked.. they know i know by the way..
2006-08-21 14:48:26 · update #1
Well I do not know what kind of help you want exactly. Do you want help stopping him, getting your other bff to know how her boyfriend is behaving or what?
I know a lot of ppl are going to tell you not to meddle, but when someone is betraying your friend it is a tricky situation, sometimes its impossible to just pretend it isnt happening. The first thing you have to ask yourself is what your bff (the one with the guy) would want you to do. Would she be very mad at you for not telling her that she was being played for a fool or would she blame you for "destroying" or "interfering in" her relationship. This is very important in order to determine what to do. If you would end up being blamed then step back, you don't need the drama, some girls just wanna live a lie. Now if your bff would want to know, I suggest you let her know. But! this is very important, you need evidence, do not make it into a "your word against his word" thing. A good video camera or recorder that can show him for what he really is will help wonders. Get together with the bff who is being harrassed and plan how to do it. Just get him the next time he pulls his little Cassanova act. Now BEWARE! If your friend is "one of those" girls who will forgive or put up with anything from her guy, you and your other bff might end up in a bad place with her anyway. Just think about it and do what you think is right. That's the most a friend can do. Good Luck ♠
2006-08-28 19:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a risk to get involved ....you may be burned many ways!! You could hint to the 2nd friend that the guy is taken. Anything more than that you may be called a hater, and lose ur friends. Let them figure it out, and just be a kind listening ear when they do (as if u didn't know bout it)
2006-08-21 21:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were u try not to get involved i mean they will settle it without u and if they really need ur help they will come and get u since u r there best friend.Trust me it has happend to me and i got into it.They didn't talk to me or each other for a long time.
Hope i could help ya
2006-08-21 21:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Waz Up? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved Alisha, your going to get cauht in a mess and end up getting hated by your friends. Just let your friend find out her self.
2006-08-21 21:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think thats a problem of yours.
2006-08-27 18:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh? i have a lot of good friends that are boys.
2006-08-21 21:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh oh
2006-08-21 21:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by *~kirsti~* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do anything, let them work it out.
2006-08-21 21:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry about it
2006-08-28 21:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh drama!!!
2006-08-28 14:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋