Or should I just be glad he's doing that and not cheating? We have sex regularily (every other day to every few days)....but lately I have a few found dirty towels in the wash. And I know it's not with another person. It's just him.
2006-08-21 14:04:26 · 19 answers · asked by Ash1es 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are right to be concerned but not upset. My guess is that something else is going on in his life that has increased this form of lets say "mediation." Try it out yourself if you haven't already..it might spark a different interest between the two of you.
2006-08-21 14:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by bbrandik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women do this? So what that he masturbates? Get over it. It's what a lot of men and women do even if they are in a relationship. It's no big deal. Now if he only masturbated and refused sex with you, then you would have something to get upset about. He was masturbating before he met you so there is no reason for him to stop now.
2006-08-21 21:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety don't be upset most men need to do it i to have been with my hubby for 5 years and he does the same thing it's a natural for a guy to to do that he may just be like mine and be highly sexually active person which is OK.They just need to release them selves he is not out doing it with other people he is at home where he is most comfortable don't let others tell you it wrong as most men need to to have a pull to relax. Any sex therapist would tell you that and it's actually good for your sex life makes him go longer in bed if he has a pull before sex.
2006-08-21 21:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Guys do that all the time rather they are with someone or not. Pretty much to them since its there they are going to do it. Like ever since they discovered it in puberty they keep on doing it. Most say its just to relieve the stress, others do it so they don't have to bother the gf or wife about sex all the time when they know she isn't in the mood. And hell for all of em it feels good. So just relax its not against the law that he takes himself in hand. Offer to help out sometimes too.
2006-08-21 21:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does a few dirty towels upset you? Just wash them and get on with your day.
2006-08-21 21:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he just needs the release more often than you do. It's not a bad thing because he is staying at home and not out looking for sex. Your feelings might be understandably hurt, but I wouldn't lose a lot of sleep over it.
2006-08-21 21:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its good he's masturbating and not cheating. If women were made with this thing hanging between their legs, they would be doing the same thing. Its the way we were made.
On the other hand. Get closer to him. Tell him it turns you on to see him masturbate. Have fun with it. Masturbate with him. Its a great turn on. I'm a man that was afraid to masturbate in front of a woman. Now that I'm with a woman that gets turned on by it, which most women do, as long as they do it in front of them, I'm a jackin mo fo for my babe,,,, she loves it.
2006-08-21 21:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a higher sex drive than you, then you shouldn't be mad at him for always being horny. Also, if he does this when your not around, then since he can't have sex with you because your at work, etc, it's fine if he releaves himself. It;s not a big deal unless he prefers to masturbate than be with you.
2006-08-21 21:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess you would feel bad that you are not pleasing him but hes not cheating and all he is doing is masterbating and that is a healthy thing and try to see what he likes but dont go all out of your way..... do things within reason or that u like as well
2006-08-21 21:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls would die to be in your position! As long as your sex life is fine and he's not cheating, you have nothing to worry about.
2006-08-21 21:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by nola232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋