Ok, so My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me 3 months ago because he said first it was because I was possesive and then he said he just wanted to be single. Well two weeks later he started dating a girl who was 15 and he is 17 and she lives 3 hours away. Well, they broke up a few days ago and NOW he is dating a girl from my school. It just hurt me so bad to find out that he found ANOTHER person and Im still by myself. I hate going to school because I don't want to see them together. I havent talked to him since we broke up and when he sees me at school he literally puts his head down and darts to the other side of the hall. I feel like I will never find anyone else. Things just get better for him and suck for me. Today I saw him while I was out to eat with my friends and i lost my appetite & when i saw him i just wanted to scream! I hate him but also still kinda like him at the same time. Is this normal? What should I do?
2006-08-21 13:56:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Concentrate on the things that will make you feel good about yourself ,,,exercise and grooming and like that. Why don't you go to a beauty collage and get your hair tinted, your eyebrows plucked ... don't forget the manicure and pedicure.
2006-08-21 14:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you can do is put him out of your mind. I mean REALLY do it!!! It will be hard at first but force yourself to think of something else when you think of him. Also start to enjoy doing other things even if you have to fake the enjoyment. One day soon you will realize that you are no longer faking it. I know it is hard but just do it! Pretend he does not exist. Have fun with your friends. Go out with other guys and don't even try to find a special one. That will come in time. If you run into him while you are out or at school ignore him. One day you will realize that he did you a favor since he seems like a real flake.
2006-08-21 14:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that you can do is to let him see you upset. He's upset as well that's why he can't look at you. That's why he's going through girl after girl, he's trying to forget his pain. You can't turn your feelings on and off like a light. If you can, they weren't true in the first place. The best thing for you to do is put on a non-chalant face and attitude to match and "pretend" to move on even though inside you can't just yet. He strokes his ego and makes himself feel better when he knows you're hurting. Don't give him that satisfaction. Don't turn the other way when you see him coming, he's still directing your life if you do. DO NOT let him or any man detour your way of life.
2006-08-21 14:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by dhelpfulhands 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know to which place u belon 2 as a indian girl acccording 2 my custom what i can say is dont do the same mistake again u ha ve said that when he sees u he just put down his head that means he is aware that he has done a mistake so dont get angry on him bcoz even u were part of mistake dont worry about that just forget every thing and concentrate on ur studies n carrier bcoz out of everyones life u have ur own life buid it carefully.
2006-08-21 17:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, two years is a long time, and you are allowed to feel hurt and cry a little. BUT now listen to this: He was to much of a coward to tell you he started liking somebody else. I have been in exactly the same situation early in my life. You have to force yourself to move on and start befriending some nice boys. Try to ignore him and his new girlfriend completely... I know it's hard but you will find if you try to stop thinking about him and try not to worry about him, in time... be patient... things will get better.
2006-08-21 14:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by iluvafrica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk and a loser and a coward. Did you consider that maybe SHE broke up with him.
I know it really, really hurts, but you're better off without this budding young womaniser.
Guaranteed: get over him and you will find somebody else.
Also guaranteed: it's hard for someone to be interested in you, when you're moping over some other guy. The new one doesn't want to risk being hurt (yeah, guys can be hurt, and badly) if you run back to Mr. Jerk-loser-coward.
2006-08-21 15:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by huztuno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes is sounds normal. It sounds like High School.You couldn't pay me to go back to High School.
I would have a crush on someone else. Don't waste anymore time on him. If you ignore him it will be easier for you and confuse the heck out of him.
2006-08-25 09:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is keep moving around with your circle of friends and meet some new guys too. This ex dude is all about himself. He isn't thinking about what kind of crap he created for you. So get over him as best you can and move on with your life. Smile and be happy & go out with other guys now.'
2006-08-21 14:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life, and don't worry about something that was over years ago. You have time yet for dozens of boyfriends if you want them. Your ex is still changing girls, so why would you want that type?
2006-08-21 14:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if u will get jelous for him he will feel happy. so why u are wasting your time for such cheap person. something good is waiting for u. wait for right time. God has some good plane for u so dont feel upset. lots of person needs u they take care of u. & gave u a wounder full life. so just do something for them. make your life precious. let him come to you don't go behind him. after all u have also some pride. don't loose it for such a stupid person. try to be happy by yourself. if u will laugh u can make laugh to others.
2006-08-21 15:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋