I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS YOUNG LADY FOR ABOUT 2 YRS,.WELL FROM THE FIRST DAY SHE HAS BEEN LIENG TO ME ABOUT EVERYTHING ,.SHE HAS CUT DOWN BUT SHES STILL LIENG ,SHE HAS CHEATED A FEW TIMES.THE ONLY REASON I'M STILL WITH HER IT'S CAUSE I REALLY LOVE HER,I MEAN I HAVE NEVER FELT THE WAY I FEAL ABOUT HER.SHE MEANS ALOT TO ME, HER FAMILY LIKES ME ,ME AND HER GET ALONG GOOD,.SOMETIMES I THINK SHE HAS ISSUES AND I TRIED TALKING TO HER ABOUT IT BUT SHE DENIES EVERYTHING ,.I REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO HELP ME OUT.I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M DOING ANY MORE.I'M AFRAID TO GET HURT AT THE END.PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2006-08-21 13:50:11 · 8 answers · asked by carkingomar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm so sorry but you fell into a trap. You're madly in love with her and by god she knows it. Now shes treating you like dirt and you love her more because of it. Your afraid she will leave you and you are just glad shes still with you. We always want what we can't have. Its time you dumped her and accept heart break. I know how you feel and heart break is horrible but this relationship will end up that way sooner or later.
You will feel much better if you dumped her now and moved on rather than her hurting you later on. Next time make sure you love each other equally and meet in the middle. You must be a great guy and I'm sure it won't be long till you find somebody more caring than her. Hope this helps and feel free to contact me if you have more questions.
2006-08-21 14:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ziggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should ask yourself if this young lady really loves you! Maybe you need to face the fact that you're going to hurt but that you'll know what to not look for in the future. If she really cared and loved you she wouldn't have your whole relationship twisted up in a lie. There are lots of people out there for all us and I'm sure if you look there is someone who will be truthful and respectful and in the end truly win your heart. Don't fool yourself because she satisfies you sexually and your afraid someone else will not be able to fill her shoes. There are lots of women out there who are beautiful inside and out without being liars.
2006-08-21 21:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a girl that cant be trusted. how can you have a good future with someone that cant be trusted. you have let her get away with cheating and now she knows that if she cheats you wont leave her. if i were you i would break up with her because when you love someone the love will keep growing stronger until she can do anything she wants and all you can do is sit back and not be able to do anything in fear that you will lose her. you need to think of yourself and your future. find someone that will treat you right. good luck.
2006-08-21 21:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sometimes" you think he has issues? All the time she has issues. Big ones. You can leave, or you can stay. Both will hurt. Life sometimes hurts. Leaving is infinitely better for you. At least then you have a chance to find someone who will love and respect you in return.
2006-08-21 21:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this with my wife. I held on to her as hard as I could. We had two kids. She cheated on me a couple times, yet I still took her back. Thinking she will change one day. Well 12 years later, breaking up and getting back together, nothing has changed. I've probably ruined my life by not getting together with another woman, that would of respected me and gave to me as much as I can give to her. So I say, Let go. Its hard I know. Move on. She has done ruined your pride, cheating on you twice. Most families love their daughters mate. Most I say. So move on before you spend to much time trying to change this woman.
2006-08-21 21:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is true that what people say " love is blind " what ever she did or done was hurting you.. but still you love her, deeper and deeper.. It was happened to me before.. it takes to much time of my life for realized that I should left him.. at last I took the granted.. I left him but my heart was deeply hurt.. I just hope that one day I could find someone who does love me for what I'm.. and no more tears will drop. I got one after and he is my heaven made spouse to me.. just pray for goodness and god will give you..
2006-08-21 21:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by norbadrishah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPELL CHECK MUTH-TRUCKAAAA. anyway, she could be whats called a "Pathalogical Liar". its a mental condition where someone cant help but lie. its like the tourettes where the person spasmatically (word?) shouts out. and dont be such a wuss.
2006-08-21 20:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Dope boy magic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves u she wouldn't lie to u and she wouldn't treat u that way.....u should be strong and be able to let go u don't need to go through that and she shouldn't cheat on u.....u shoud'nt let anyone take advantage of u like that
2006-08-21 21:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋