Husband and I are trying to conceive should I go see my obgyn?

Question

I have a 12 year old and a 2 year old. We are trying to conceive.
June - Nothing
July -Nothing
August - hoping for a postive result
If August doesn't produce a positive result should I go see my obgyn? I am 35 husband is 38. We haven't had trouble in the past. I am just concerned that it has taken this long.

Answer 1

You should not be concerned unless it takes you over a year and then nothing.

You are getting older (not saying anything) and it's proven the older you are sometimes the harder to concieve.

Are you calculating your ovulationg? Are you maybe a little stressed but don't realize it with an almost teen and a toddler?

http://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz/Atoz/tl/misc/duedate/entfert.jsp

Answer 2

I recently had a miscarriage and the doctor was talking to us about trying again. They actually have a chart that tells you how long it on average for a couple in your age group to get pregnant. I am 30 and he said that most healthy 30 year olds achieve pregnancy within 7 months. You could talk to you doctor and get his recommendation but I don't think 3 months is long enough to assume there is a problem. I know that these matters aren't always left to numbers and logic so if it eases your mind, go to the doctor. Also, be sure you eat a healthy diet and take prenatal vitamins. I will keep my fingers crossed for your August positive. I am supposed to start my period on Thursday and I am hoping for a positive as well.

Answer 3

You should try when your ovulating and ovulations begins after you have your period. I am speaking from experience, I am 36 and I am now 26 weeks pregnant. What I did is after I had my period and that usely lasts about 4 days. I started to count 14 days within those 14 days I made sure that I was having relations with my husband. So the following month I started to feel sick and now I'm pregnant with my last child..

I have 3 other children and my husband and myself decided to have one more because I am not planning on having anymore children.

Anyway, just try to do it around that time and I guarantee you it will work. If not goto see your obgyn... Just to make sure that everything is alright with you... (Good Luck)!!!!

Answer 4

To conceive you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 5

Well, it never hurts to touch base with the OB/gyn, but she will probably tell you to try for 6 months before starting 'secondary infertility' testing. Good luck and I hope you see that second line this month!

Answer 6

attempt taking yet another try the following day. think ofyou've got takin the attempt to early. i'm dealing with a similar element at present. yet i understand that in case you're taking the attempt to quickly and also you're pregnant your hormone ranges would were to low to locate 4 days in the past. once you have not any era the following day take the try back. good success

Answer 7

I think you would be better off to conceive with your husband rather than your OB-GYN. But then again, if your husbands little fishes are dead, perhaps the OB-GYN's are alive and raring to go.

Answer 8

It is not uncommon for acheiving pregnancy to take a while.You both are probably just fine.Make sure you have sex when you are ovulating for good results.

Answer 9

they say to try for 12 months before getting to worried

Answer 10

yes