i have this friend and she's not ugly but alot of guys dont find her attractive and she finally found this guy who she likes alot she talks about him all the time and when i finally met him he had told me privatly that i was a very gorgeous person i thought he was just messing but like a few days after i met him we started talking on the phone then i met up with him again and i slept with him...i didnt mean to though and i dont know if i should tell my friend or not cause he obviously dont want her and i dont want her to get hurt
2006-08-21 13:35:18 · 16 answers · asked by abbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These things happen all the time. The guy is over, slips on some water on the floor and WHAMMY, he is inside you. Your friend should understand this and there will be no issue
2006-08-21 13:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me this was no accident, Trust me I did the same thing to one my closest friends 2 summers ago, I left The guy because he was dirty for liking me being that i was her friend and I told her and now we'll never be friends again. But I really dont care. Im Just saying, I've Been there. Don't tell her
2006-08-21 20:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by skdfjasl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as sleeping with someone by accident, and although this guy does not like her you still betryaed her. If you have no plans to ever accidently sleeping with him again then don't tell her and stay clear of her.
2006-08-21 20:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a true friend you would have told her about him flirting with you when it happened but now that you have had sex with him your friend is gonna be more hurt by (depending on how long you have been friends) the fact that you slept with him!
2006-08-22 00:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by applebottomchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to rub salt into the woulnd. Let what happened stay between You and him. Maby you did her a favor and found somthing out about him that she can use to find a place in their relationship.
2006-08-21 21:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow talk about been low! you are a real friend I can tell.I am happy that you slept with this guy.now he is as low as you.
as for telling your friend about this guy.I would leave it alone.she will find out soon .I just hope she doesn`t sleep with him. what a winner.He `s a big fat Jerk! you have really taken to the next level.
2006-08-21 20:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your friend a favor, don't tell her, then call up the guy and bang him in her front yard and wait for her to come outside and see it. hopefully she will be so crushed she'll never speak to either one of you again, which is the best thing that could happen to her im guessing
2006-08-23 21:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I hope you accidentally used some protection.
I am sure that if you tell her it was an accident she will understand.......that you are a pathological lier and I am sure if you don't tell her she will find out and be hurt either way. even though it was an accident.
2006-08-21 21:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not an accident... she is going to be hurt, but you should tell her
2006-08-21 20:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's cold and you don't accidentally sleep with someone, you knew what you were doing, subconsciously you thought he was too good for her so you wanted him, tell her what you did,your no friend
2006-08-21 20:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by killbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋