that had happened to you recently and accused you of being responsible for the things he plotted against you? scenario, recently you've had pranks, threats on the phone, knocks on the door at all hours, yours and your dads car windows got popped, things gone missing form your home although you dont live with your man and no- one has the keys (unless duplicated), people waiting outside your door, hes been accusing you of cheating and has been playing mental games with your mind coz he was responsible for all of the above, but you have realised and he knows that you have, and is not a happy lad. your moving in a few weeks, you cant tell the police , get injunction or run to a shelter, as if you aint around he will target you ill elderly parents. you have basically been living in sheer paranoia for the past few months and all these things are actually real. no he aint aloud in my house he aint got keys, but how would you deal with the threats and the situation? please help me out!!!
2006-08-21 12:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is terrible!! Hire a hitman!!! lol
2006-08-21 13:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why cant you go to the cops?
Second, why cant you go to a womans shelter?
Third, Get a restraining order against him and put in it all these things that he has done: broke into your car, broke into your house, threatened you on the phone and threatened your family.
Fourth, find someplace you can store all your stuff except your clothing and makeup and go camp out someplace so he cant find you.
Fifth, Change your phone number and DO NOT leave a forwording one. Tell your family to NOT give it to anyone they dont know.
Sixth, Go to a womans shelter anyway and seek help!
Seventh, Go to the police and seek help! You need to report everthing that he is doing, even if it is minor because if in the future he gets convicted of murder (or something) they will have a previous record on him and be able to see just how far back he has been like this.
2006-08-21 20:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the protection of the child you need to get help from the police or move. Obviously he doesn't care for the child or else he wouldn't be doing this. Get out before you or the child get hurt. Its nuts the things women put up with you are a human being and he is a nutcase GET OUT. As for your parents do you have anyone else that lives close that could keep an eye on them. I wish when people have sex with people that they would say... Is this someone I would trust with the life of a child. IF the answer is no or I don't know, THEN put your pants on and go.
2006-08-21 20:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by JesusisGodsson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, understand, but you still have to call the police, let them know what is going on, get an injunction againt him to leave you alone, as well as your parents. Stalking is against the law. And if you call 911 and tell them you are being stalked, they ( in my case the county sherrif) were there in an instant. Tell your parents the same thing -- that if he shows up, to report it as stalking. That word really brings the law. He's a nut case, and you should not be living in fear. When he gets backed off a little, you can move, and if your parents rent, get them moved as well -- maybe really far away -- another town. Good luck, sweetie -- being stalked is no fun, but when you get the fuzz there on a stalking charge, it seems to bring some of these loonies to their senses.
2006-08-21 20:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. You won't have to worry about your parents. If he's threatening to kill them he can go to jail for that. Wake up and fight back. Go to the country courthouse and get restraining orders on him. Prosecute him for destruction of your property.
2006-08-21 20:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes nuts get rid of him,call the police.
2006-08-21 19:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with how u described it his a gutless bully and probably would back off if confronted especially if its a big bloke doing confronting or u could explain that all this crap is scarring Ur child and hopefully he'll care enough to stop.
2006-08-21 19:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised it took you so long to figure it all out. You should have had a PI hired to document what he's be doing and then take him to court and sue his___ off.
2006-08-21 20:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by roncarolhillsstupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur sure of it and u have evidence, file a complaint and the next time he'll bother u and your family, call the police and put him to jail
2006-08-21 20:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the sicko and start a real life.
2006-08-21 19:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to call the police so that they can keep a record of everything he does to you! stop fearing him and start figthing back!
2006-08-21 20:02:11 · answer #11 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋