His 28 yr old son just moved "home" with his girlfriend because she is pregnant. She's due in January. They had an apartment and both work. I am not sure what the deal is. They lived in the same town as their jobs and now they have to drive 27 miles to work daily. He got a DUI and has no license. She drives him everywhere.
My boyfriends daughter, her husband and 2 kids just moved out of his house in March. She left crappy diapers in the couch, on the floor under the dining room table, She would not clean house and it amazes me no one is ever expected to help pay the bills. They all just kind of free load.
What is making him such a target for his adult kids? Do they need Dr. Phil?
2006-08-21 12:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, his daughter moved out with her kids and husband, and then his son moved in. In the 4 years I have known him, he has only lived in his home without his grown up kids for 1 month at a time. They are always moving home. He works his rear end off. His daughter and son rotate who is living at his house.
2006-08-21 12:47:14 · update #1
He complains, gripes and bitches to me, but never to them. He says they are like trash, the longer they stay, the more they stink. I live a block away in a 2 story home and am very happy here. I just wish he would stay at his own home once in awhile. He likes it here because there are no little kids or people running the house.
2006-08-21 12:49:30 · update #2
It's time for you to move on and find a new boyfriend, one who's values are more in line with your own.
Good luck.
2006-08-21 16:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know its hard in the beginning with kids and some are not as quick to pick up after themselves.. you either discuss it or help without resentment..or Build an in law home in the back or add a door. Better yet.. teach the little ones to throw away the diapers for mom. they like helping too..
Regarding being a target for our kids. hon. that goes with parenting.. He will reach a point where he realizes he isn't helping them but enabling them.. It takes time.. be patient.. things will change.. this is only temporary
2006-08-21 19:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters these are his kids if he is not complaining or saying anything than who are u? Don't get me wrong I understand your point, but you must think about yourself also. Here is what I mean if u two continue dating and maybe u want to move in. How can u with his grown as$ kids in the house? U would never have any privacy. Maybe he is not right 4 u, it is obvious that your priorities are different let him go.
2006-08-21 19:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
daddy havent put his foot down and told those grown-ups to get out on their own they have children and relationships for crying out loud. they are taking advantage because he is letting them i knew someone like that also that kept dirty diapers laying around everywhere lets just say she didnt live with me very long. this is causing problems for their daddy social and financially and thats just wrong i would say he needs to ask for rent but forget that he needs to kick them out.
2006-08-21 19:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they need him to set rules limits n boundarys where his adult kids r concerned when is he gonna cut the strings n put his foot down.
2006-08-21 19:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa im confused
2006-08-21 19:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋