(phisically and mentally)
I've never been asked out on a date in my ENTIRE LIFE!What do I have to do to make guys like me more.
2006-08-21 12:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by ♫♪♫TAY-LUR♫♪♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm twelve and all my other friends who are the same age have been asked out many times before!
2006-08-22 11:31:32 · update #1
What kind of girls do I like???
Just bear with me for a minute while I pretend I’m not married…
OK… First appearances do count, so ‘looks that grab my attention’ would be a good place to start. Someone who looks like they care about their appearance… I’m not in to nose rings… Height and build don’t matter much to me (I’m tall, and my wife is short)… Nice eyes and a nice smile are always nice… I’m not discriminatory, so skin colour doesn’t matter to me!
‘Personality’ wise, a happy and free nature… honesty… they are probably the two traits I’d look for!
You mentioned that you have never been asked out on a date in your entire life… I don’t know how old you are, but your entire life hasn’t finished yet!!! All I can do is suggest that you ‘be yourself’… if people can’t accept you for who you are, then they probably aren’t worth worrying about!!!
See what you think of this poem I’ve written… I’m not too sure of how appropriate it is, but you might like it!
In the 'heart' of the beholder...
'Beauty' they say 'is in the eyes of the beholder',
and how 'beauty is only skin deep'!
'Looks' they say 'can be deceiving'...
so 'never judge a book by its cover!'
I speak of a 'beauty' which comes deep from within,
and touches the very core of the heart.
It is beauty you feel, rather than see,
and it is felt from the 'heart'... not the hands!
Love and compassion...
sincerity and kindness...
it is these which determine the true worth of man,
for without them, we are just 'walking meat'!
To look in a mirror with only our eyes,
is to hide ourselves from our soul!
See not with the eyes, unless to be blind,
of the 'true beauty' which lays within!
To judge ourselves by only our looks,
is to fail in the eyes of God...
for He will judge us, not by our looks,
but by the 'emotions' we have learnt to feel!
Search deep in your heart for a beauty,
which can be felt by those who are blind...
for even the blind have their beauty,
and it is there for us all to feel!
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Be ‘yourself’ and as a favour to yourself, be the best that you can be!!!
I feel confident, that in time, you will be noticed and appreciated for who you are, and hopefully, when you do get asked out on a date, it won’t be by an a***hole!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-08-21 23:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion, I had lots of experiences already and I'm only 20 years old. I think a lot of young people look for "physical appearance" and not personality, they don't care how dumb or immature they are all they know is "look at the a$s" or "damn those jugs can sure jiggle" but as you get a little older, it's ALL about the personality. I don't want no dumb blonde who doesn't know anything about life but to party and drink. I want someone who knows how to cook lol. Anyways hope this helps!
2006-08-21 20:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Dispirited 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty face is the First things guys look at then maybe the bod
Good personalite and good chemistry
2006-08-21 19:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Reivax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i feel just like you. i lub you
2006-08-21 19:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋