I want you guys to give me a REAL answer for me. PLEASE!!!
2006-08-21 12:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
We need more info, but you can probably answer this yourself... Is she in your league? Is she like you? If she is captain of the cheerleading squad and you spend more time with your mom than kids from school, you should probably get over it. If you think you really have a chance, go talk to her. About the weather, or a good movie you saw (like The Lakehouse or The Notebook or Mission Impossible III, not a sci-fi, fantasy, or horror movie, even if LOTR Return of the King DID win best picture...) Do NOT walk up to her and start talking about how much you like her or she will run away or stab you, either of which would be perfectly deserved. If she looks you in the eye and does not break eye contact, she likes you, if she keeps smiling more than not, she likes you, if she touches you more than once for any reason, she likes you. If she looks at the floor and gives short answers, she has trouble talking to you. She may like you or not like you, you don't know. Just ask her to do something outside of school, something quick and casual right after school, like get something to eat right after school on your way home, as in, NOT a date. Worst case scenario, she shoots you down in flames and you get over it, move on, you can look back the rest of your life with the GREAT satisfaction that you did ask, and you now have more courage to ask the next girl. Remember: Girls don't ask guys out (usually) so if you want to date girls, you will have to get used to asking them and if they say no, get over it and move on. The difference between a man who has succeeded and a man who has failed is that the man who succeeded has tried and failed and learned from his mistakes and tried again and again and is still trying every day. The failure failed once or twice, was horribly wounded and was too afraid to ever try again. This is true in love and in business. Good luck.
2006-08-21 12:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation when I was your age, and I wish I knew then, what I know now. Most guys try to act and play it cool like they dont care. They dont want to dance at school dances with the girls cause it wont look cool or your friends srnt dancing. But the best thing you can do to get girls is go that extra step that your friends wont. If girls are dancing together and all the guys are standing around. Join in with the girls, they will take notice. Go out of your way to talk to her, nicely. Not throwing stupid lines. Introduce yourself, and maybe ask her to get pizza after school or a movie. Its all in the way you present yourslef. Be confident, but not overconfident like a idiot.Just act normal when you talk to her.
2006-08-21 19:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by nypokerplayer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are four things that can happen.
1. You can get to know her, let her know how you feel and tell her. At that point she will fall for you -- and you will be happy (at least for a while).
2. You can get to know her, ler her know how you feel and tell her. At that point she will laugh at you -- and you will be unhappy (at least for a while).
3. You can go on like you are now & regret not acting on your feelings for the rest of your life.
4. You can move on with your life and meet other women who will know you exist.
You need to avoid #3 at all costs.
You need to decide if the possibility of #2 is worth trying for #1.
#4 -- not so bad.
I say take risks & go for #1
EDIT --------------------------------
There is lots of good advice up above. This has happened to lots of us. At my recent High School Reunion, I found out that lots of the women who went to my HS felt the same way that I did and that you do.
2006-08-21 19:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ranto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh. Young love.
Is she is your school year, or older, or younger? Do you get any chance to meet her without all your mates (or her mates) looking on.
If so, try and pluck up courage to say that you think she's pretty, or good at netball, or clever, or whatever it is that you like about her. I wouldn't go all out and declare your love for her - that will scare her off, but everybody likes compliments, and her response to you will give you a clue about what to do next.
Good luck.
2006-08-21 19:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by ftmshk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take solace in the fact that you and every body else in the world has been in this predicament at sometime or other in their life.
Do you think that the two of you would be compatible?
Instead of thinking about if she's the right girl for you... are you being the right kinda' guy for her?
2006-08-21 19:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Morey000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't know you, it's a good bet you don't know her well enough to "Love" her. My bet is that you're just confusing Love with Hormones. Go say "Hello" to her, and find out if it's fact or fantasy...
2006-08-21 19:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by makeup lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you be in love with a girl you know nothing about?
2006-08-21 19:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you be in love with someone YOU dont even know?Introduce yourself for starters.
2006-08-21 19:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by mustang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about this for REAL, introduce yourself. If she seems to like
you ask her out, if not walk away with your dignity.
2006-08-21 19:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say hi to her,,,Introduce yourself..
Start hanging around her...
Find reasons to be with her..
Talk to her...
2006-08-21 19:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋