2006-08-21 11:51:46 · 34 answers · asked by Rob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yourself, you can only decide if she is right for you
2006-08-21 11:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by sunflowerlizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is the right person to have an opinion about your girlfriend unless you want it, and you think she is the one. If so then your closest friends and family, the people that know you the best.
2006-08-21 11:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by shirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are going to have a hard time believing this, but of all the folks who helped me the MOST, and usually by saving me a LOT of heartache...it was my MOTHER!!
Think about it this way, she has known you since the first breath you drew, knows pretty much your little self inside and out, and she has watched you grow and respond to your world even when you thought she was not paying attention!
Women can see right through other women--it is like a second sight!
And any girl future pal you may have -- if in the beginning your mom meets her and mom's radar finds a blip in the internal screeen that God gave her...wouldn't you WANT to know before you spend untold time investing and Spending CASH on a chick?
I know you would, and just think, if she can spare you, her beloved son, for whom she'd likely walk through FIRE for (yes, YOU!),
to spare you the misfortune and pain of a heartbreak, don't you think she'd spy a creep with ulterior motives in a
New York MINUTE???!!!
Hey!
She loves ya!
She wants ya to be HAPPY as a King!!!
I know!....and I've never even met her!
Good Luck!
2006-08-21 12:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends and family that you... 1) trust, 2) know you, 3) know your girlfriend, 4) have given good advice in the past, 5) will tell you the TRUTH whether you want to hear it or not because they care about you.
Sometimes people with the above qualifications say things that you don't agree with. But they see things you don't--love is blind! For your own good, don't ignore them just cuz you don't agree. At least hear them out and take them seriously. They can be wrong, but from my experience, they're usually not.
2006-08-21 12:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age. If you are under age (18 or 21 years of age) then your mom and dad has a right to have an opinion other than you. If you are of age and on your own, then no one but you has that right. At this age you should be responsible enough to make your own choices.
2006-08-21 12:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can think for you or live your life for you... therefore, you have to be able to make your own decisions and opinions about everything in life... from what underwear to wear today to if your girlfriend is good for you or not...
You know yourself better than anyone... don't let others think for you... don't live your life vicariously through someone Else's beliefs of what is good for you and what is not....
This is YOUR life...and won't get a second chance to live it again... so don't let anyone give you any blueprints of what they think your life should resemble...
Good luck!!!
2006-08-21 12:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by goddessofchaos50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is entitled to an opinion but the only one that matters should be yours unless you need peoples approval for everything you do.
Don't be a sheep and follow your own thoughts and feelings
2006-08-21 11:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious the only person that should really care is you why does it matter if someone thinks she is to tall or laughs to much if you like her then work on it your friends will see it too just give it time
2006-08-21 11:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by jdsb121305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You! Yeah people that care about you are going to have theirs, which everyone is entitled. But it's yours that counts. You have to make up your own mind about her. What if you change your relationship because of what someone told you and it turns out not to be true.
People that care about you want to protect you. But you are the one that's living your life.
2006-08-21 11:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Def your best mate babe - when your in a relationship you can be oblivious to seeing how your relationship looks on the outside to other people. For instance, your best mate would notice changes in you, whether they are good or bad, so I would ask your best mate.
2006-08-21 12:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by minxgiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually, but if you're uncertain talk to a close friend or family member, who you know is unbiased and knows her character if you need advice.
2006-08-21 12:00:25 · answer #11 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋